Not every relationship would last forever; some relationships don’t even get to a month and it seems to be over with both partners struggling to keep it alive. It’s always easy to start a relationship but maintaining the interest for each other in the relationship is the harder part.
Various things can make one lose interest in a relationship; sometimes people lose interest in relationships without even knowing the reason. However, when you’ve lost interest in a relationship, there would be lots of signs to show for it.
1. STRUGGLE TO KEEP THE PASSION ALIVE
Normally, when two people in love start a relationship, the passion in that relationship is normally high; but when the relationship starts getting older, the passion drops (that is if they don’t keep the fire burning in that relationship). When you struggle to keep the passion alive then it’s quite obvious that your interest in that relationship has waned.
2. UNHAPPY
When you are in a relationship and you aren’t happy, and nothing is even making you happy to be in that relationship, it’s just a sign that you have lost the desire to be in that relationship; and when there is no desire, love can’t exist in that relationship. Everyone wants to be in a relationship and be happy, not the opposite.
3. START HARBOURING THOUGHTS OF QUITTING
When one starts harbouring thoughts of quitting the relationship, it’s a major sign that such person is tired of the relationship. Every action we take in this life starts with a thought; thoughts are the seed that makes action possible. It’s no doubt that when you start harbouring these kinds of thoughts then you are actually tired.
4. EXCUSES
When you start making excuses for everything, it’s another major sign that you don’t care about the relationship anymore. Excuses show nonchalance and nonchalance in a relationship is just a sign that you are only counting your days to the end of the relationship.
5. FEEL BETTER WITHOUT YOUR PARTNER THAN WITH YOUR PARTNER
This is also another clear sign that your relationship is wearing you out and you need to move on. When you feel heavy and have this feeling of reluctance of being with your partner then it’s obvious that you’re tired of the relationship. Sometimes, people feel better when they are alone than when they are with their partners and for this they shrug when they have to see their partner.
This is a huge sign that you have totally lost interest in that relationship.
When you have lost interest in a relationship, from that moment on you would start seeing all the faults your partner has which you probably didn’t notice all the while.
Shawn