Who would make the first move? Not making the first move have hindered so many relationships from existing. Ladies mostly leave it up to the men to make the first move even when they extremely like the guy; they do this so as to preserve their worth and not seem desperate.
However, some men are shy of making that first move, or don’t understand the signals the ladies give when they really want you to make the first move. Not making the first move would hinder the relationship from happening.
There are certain signals women give when they want the man to make the first move.
1. SHE SMILES OR FEELS HAPPY WHEN WITH YOU
If she always sends out huge beams of smiles when with you, or is usually happy when together with you then it’s a sign that she’s extremely comfortable with you and wouldn’t mind taking things further.
2. FUTURE PLANS TO SEE
If she talks about seeing you again or make plans so you can see each other again, it’s no coincidence; that’s just a hint that she digs you and would love to be with you over and over again. She most likely does this to create another opportunity for you to make that move.
3. EYE CONTACT
It’s almost always in the eyes. When a lady is attracted to a man and is urging him on to make the first move, her eyes sends little messages, her pupils dilate, and she could probably stare into your eyes to pass that message.
4. GIVE CERTAIN CLUES
Some ladies are actually shy to make that first move and are even shyer when with a man they admire. If she’s unnecessarily shy, easily laughs at your jokes, fondles her hair or leave other similar clues then these are signs that she admires you and is only waiting for you to make the first move.
5. MAKES EXCUSES TO SEE YOU
Remember she doesn’t want you to see her as desperate, so in a bid to give you a chance to make that move, she makes up ways to see you again. Also, she would never acknowledge that you’re the reason for such actions, just to keep her image intact. But it’s up to you to take it up from there.
Most men have lost a ‘would-be’ relationship not because the lady wasn’t interested, but because they never made the first move. Feelings die after a while; if you don’t make that first move when due, she might meet someone who would.