Your relationship might be going smoothly till it reaches that point where your man ought to propose, but the proposal isn’t forthcoming. This scenario pans out a lot of the times and is usually a cause for concern for many ladies.
However, it isn’t that he doesn’t want to propose to you or get married to you, but sometimes, he’s just unsure. Marriage to a lot of men is a big deal, and to many that next step is just scary.
These are possible signs he lets out when he isn’t sure of proposing.
1. HE’S HOT AND COLD
Sure, your man loves you; but that next big step seems like an almost impossible task to him. He could be all loving today, but that fear of commitment could make him cold and different the next day.
2. HE ACTS STRANGE SOMETIMES
Fear and indecision could make even the most confident of men act so weird and strange. Fighting your fears could make one act strangely. Many ladies tend to observe that on the days leading to their proposal, their man kept acting strangely.
3. HE ASKS INDIRECT QUESTIONS
Sometimes, in a bid to overcome his fear that he isn’t making a mistake, he could ask you weird and indirect questions that you probably don’t know the reason behind the question.
Most times, he even puts you through tests just to make sure you are the right one for him.
4. HIS FAMILY
Sometimes, his family could be the reason why he hasn’t yet popped the question. His mum could be a deciding factor for most men and if she doesn’t approve of you, it could make your man hesitate a bit.
How does his mum treat you? How does his family treat you? The answer to these questions could tell a lot.
5. HE FEELS UNCOMFORTABLE WHEN YOU TALK ABOUT MARRIAGE
A man that’s not sure of proposing would also feel slightly uncomfortable when you talk about anything related to marriage and proposal. Whether it’s a friend’s marriage you are talking about or you asking marriage related questions would make him feel edgy.
Not every man feels sure of proposing and not every man can assure himself that he isn’t making a mistake yet. Sometimes, it’s up to the lady to prove that he isn’t making a mistake without being desperate.
ViV