Anger is an emotion that can ruin your relationship. Webster defines anger as the strong feeling of being upset or the feeling that wants to make someone hurt other people. This definition shows that anger can make you strongly upset that you might want to hurt someone- this doesn’t exclude your partner.
Anger is an emotion that would hardly bring anything good; everyone gets angry, your man or lady can make you angry but self-control is much needed to have a successful relationship.
There are certain decisions you shouldn’t make when you are angry, else you might lose your relationship forever.
1. END THE RELATIONSHIP
People do this a lot and it should be avoided; anger can make your relationship seem like crap in the twinkle of an eye when it really means so much to you. You should only end a relationship when you are in the right state of mind and not when you are angry. Anger can becloud your judgement; do not end your relationship when you are angry- you might regret it tomorrow.
2. RETALIATE
Retaliation is for kids and relationship is for the mature mind; anger can make you think and act like a kid. Do not retaliate on your partner because you are angry else you would start a war which would have no winner but two losers. Retaliation is a decision that you shouldn’t really be involved in when you are angry because your relationship might never recover from it.
3. FIGHT
Domestic violence is a product of anger, some couples fight big time when they are angry and it hurts to see that this happen in relationships in this modern era. Relationship should be between lovers who are friends not between enemies who claim to be lovers. Why hit a lady if you love her? Why fight or accost your man if you care about him? Anger can give you a logical reason to do that but it should never be so.
4. KEEP MALICE FOR DAYS
Anger can make you keep malice with your partner for a long time and this should never be the case. Malice can gradually kill the love that exists in a relationship; you might think it’s nothing but it really is something. Little by little it can create enmity between you and your partner; do not let anger do this to your relationship.
5. SAY THINGS YOU WOULD REGRET
You might feel that words hardly mean anything but they really do. Sometimes words can end a relationship, sometimes words can kill the trust in a relationship, and sometimes words can leave lasting wounds that might take a very long time to heal. No matter how angry you are, always watch what you say or you might regret it in the long run. Choose your words wisely, don’t let anger do it for you or you might regret it totally.
The feeling of anger can mess up your emotions and make you take pointless and hasty decisions. If there is one emotion you should try as much as possible to curtail, it is anger.
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