5 REASONS YOU SHOULDN’T USE YOUR BODY TO WOO A MAN

It’s a normal occurrence these days for ladies to try woo a man by using their body as an advantage. There is no doubt that men are easily susceptible to little temptations but one thing every lady should know is that you might force a camel to the river but can’t force it to drink.

Most ladies try to get men attracted to them by dressing scantily or by exposing some vital areas to get some attention. The truth is you might get the much needed attention but you would be getting the wrong attention.

I bring you five reasons why using your body to get a man might just be a wrong idea.

1. HE WON’T SEE YOUR REAL VALUE

When a man gets attracted to a lady because of the flesh he has seen, he would lose sight of other values that the lady has; all he saw was some flesh and that’s all that he would value. Every lady has something valuable within her not just her body, but when her body becomes the spotlight, it would take the shine off other values.

2. NO TRUST

Even if you finally get that man after wooing him with your body, you would hardly win his trust. Men are not generous with their trust; you ought to work hard to earn a man’s trust. If you got him because of a show of your asset, he would also feel that you would do so to other men, and trusting you would be a hard ordeal.

3. YOU MIGHT END JUST BEING A SIDE CHICK

There is nothing but the truth; when a man doesn’t find your act trustworthy, you might just end up being the lady he craves for but nothing more than that. Your antics might get to him but on the long run you might not be more than a side chick.

4. YOU DEVALUE YOURSELF

When you only have to use your body to get a man to get attracted to you, it means you don’t see any other value in you other than your hot body which men crave for. When you see the real value in you, when you know that you would be appreciated without flaunting then you would be the perfect definition of a woman that men needs.

5. IT MIGHT NOT LAST

When you get a man just through your body, the relationship might just not last; your body might get that man but keeping him is the harder ordeal, you would need more than just a show of flesh to keep that man. When he gets tired or get used to your body, what next?

Ladies ought to know that the real value of a woman isn’t in what she flaunts but in what she has. Like Shawn said in his recent piece, be the woman a man needs not the one he wants.

S.O.Z