5 REASONS YOU SHOULD NEVER ABUSE YOUR PARTNER IN FRONT OF YOUR CHILDREN

Abusing your partner is a terrible thing, and it’s even worse when you abuse that person in front of your kids. I find it hard to comprehend when couples abuse themselves in front of their kids. Quarrelling in front of your kids is bad enough, but abusing your partner is even worse.

These are some of the reasons you should never do that:

1. YOU SET BAD EXAMPLES

Children learn a lot of things as they grow up, and you don’t even know that they are picking up things from you. Parents are a child’s first role model; so you can imagine the inspiration they get from you when they see you abusing each other.

2. YOU LOWER THE REPUTATION OF YOUR SPOUSE

When you go as low as disrespecting your partner in front of your child(ren), you give them that impression that it’s okay to be disrespectful. So your child will tend to disrespect the spouse that’s being abused.

3. YOU HURT THE KIDS

If only you can imagine the scenes that play in a child’s head when their parents abuse themselves. Your child will feel hurt from this, and it’ll have a devastating effect on them as they grow up.

4. YOUR KIDS WILL START TO TAKE SIDES

As your kids grow older, it wouldn’t take too long for them to start picking sides. Rather than love both their parents; they’ll love one and hate the other.

5. YOU GRADUALLY KILL THE UNITY IN THE HOME

The next thing that comes up will be division; your family that ought to be united and loving, will now become divided, just as a result of the things you say with your mouth.

 

Being abusive towards your partner is wrong on every front, and it’s even worse when it’s done in front of the kids.

Shawn

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