‘I love you’ is a three-letter word that sometimes mean so much and sometimes mean so little. Sometimes these three words can save your relationship, and sometimes it won’t even have any impact when you say it to a lady.
“I love you” can mean so much to a lady and these same words can seem so ordinary to her. This brings me to the question; why should this three-letter word be held highly by some and sometimes held without regards.
Have you ever told a lady you love her and she shrugged it off? She has reasons for doing that.
I would share five of those reasons with you
1. PAST EXPERIENCES
Most ladies have been through a lot of pains in previous relationships that the words “I love you” become extremely hard to believe. When a lady starts dating probably in her teenage years, she’s easily tricked into believing those words; but as she grows older, she experiences a lot and those cherished words then become ordinary.
2. SHE DOESN’T TRUST YOUR MOTIVE
Sometimes it’s about trust issues; the harsh truth is the words “I love you” have been used by men just to get through the pants of ladies, so those words hardly carry anything anymore. To her those words are fictitious just to get in her pants and once you have reached the Promised Land you wave her ‘au revoir”. This is probably one of the reasons why ladies don’t really believe those words anymore.
3. YOU HAVEN’T SHOWN ENOUGH
Sometimes action speaks louder than words; most ladies these days would prefer you show them you love them than say it to them. The words don’t mean much anymore but action does. Sometimes she doesn’t believe you because she feels you haven’t shown her that you really do love her, and till then, she would be taking you on a merry-go-round.
4. SHE THINKS YOU ARE LIKE THE REST
Sometimes ladies have this belief that all guys are the same; but this isn’t really all true; what ladies mostly believe is that almost all guys are the same, they know there are still genuine guys out there but they are few. Maybe you haven’t shown her that you are a part of the genuine few that’s why she doesn’t really believe you. If she still sees you as a player then there is definitely no way you are winning her heart.
5. WANTS TO BE CHASED MORE
Sometimes, it’s just a case of value and self-esteem. Ladies love when they are valued and held in high esteem; this gives them that self-confidence. However, this could be frustrating sometimes to men, but ladies just enjoy being chased the more; so it’s not like they don’t believe you but it’s a case of them having fun while it lasts. This is like a sports to most ladies; a sport that they really value.
These are really some of the reasons why ladies don’t fall for those words anymore; the words have been bastardised beyond reasonable doubt. It can be frustrating when you love a lady and she takes it for a joke, though sometimes it could even be a case of them not feeling same about you.
Though one thing to note is that those words don’t hold much grounds anymore; action does.