Most women tend to think that they are the only ones in need of love and affection, because they think that men are ‘strong’, and ‘unemotional’, but they forget that we too are humans, and need all the loving we can get to continue to go about our lives. In fact, without love and support, we would not be able to keep going. So if you’re a woman, and you held that sentiment about loving men, you got to change it now. And to make things easier, here are a few ways I think you can show a man love.
1. BE HIS CONFIDANT/SHOULDER TO LEAN ON
Unknown to a lot of women, men go through a lot on a daily basis, and need someone to share their problems with; someone to talk to, and a shoulder to lean on. You can help your man by offering him yours. Sometimes, we do not even like to share unless someone we care about presses us to. So, when your man returns for the day, ask him how his day went, enquire about his mood if you notice anything unusual, and talk him through/out of whatever challenge he may be facing. Things like that make one feel appreciated and loved.
2. SUPPORT HIM FINANCIALLY…IF YOU CAN
I’m not saying you should take his every responsibility from him, but there is nothing wrong with helping him out with one or two if you notice that they’re too much for him to handle. Whether in marriage or a premarital relationship, offering a man financial assistance when he desperately needs it is a good way of showing him love. Remember though, that there is a fine line between needing financial help and being a financial burden.
3. FEED HIM
If your work permits you to be home earlier than your man, make him something good to eat when he returns. Men love food, especially, after a hard days work. If you can make some available when he needs it, he’ll definitely feel loved more.
4. GIVE HIM GOOD SEX
Nothing makes a man happier than bomb sex. If you can turn up for him in bed, and serve his every desire, he’d be the happiest man alive. Seek out new ways you can blow his mind in bed, and use them to thrill him every time. Let each experience be something different from the past. Also, be willing to go the extra mile for him if he needs you to.
So ladies, love your man today, because if you don’t, somebody else might.