There are many women out there who want to settle down and start a family with a man, but haven’t simply because they are yet to find ‘Mr Right’. If you’re one of them or maybe you’re one of those already in a relationship, but don’t really know if he’s the real deal…then, this post is just what you need to help you figure him out.
Finding the right man for marriage isn’t really as difficult as people make it out to be, I think the problem is that most women tend to make assessments with their heart, instead of their head. One secret of successfully getting married is that in choosing your partner, you must put all feelings aside, and let your mind (head) do the sizing up. That way, you get to notice the things that should actually be noticed, and not the things that shouldn’t. For instance, ‘how mentally mature is he?’ Instead of ‘how tall or good looking’ he is. You ask the right questions and get the right answers when you use your head, if not; the opposite is what you might get. So ladies, always use your head, and watch out for these signs…
1. HE’S SINGLE AND WILLING TO SETTLE
This is the most important part of everything. The man in question must be single. Obviously, you cannot get married to another woman’s husband or boyfriend, so he must be single and ready to mingle, as they put it…unless, of course, you’re interested in being a backup wife.
Now, his willingness to settle; has he moved on from all the other women in his life, and actually want to settle with one woman? If he has multiple women trailing him, he’s not ready.
2. HE’S MENTALLY AND EMOTIONALLY MATURE
How well does/can he handle situations? Is he uncontrollable when angry or is he in control? Does he understand the importance of sacrifice? Does he put you and your needs first before his? Is he understanding, patient, and tolerant? Is he sensitive to issues concerning you? I can go on, and on…
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