How do you know a man isn’t what he claims he is? How do you know he’s not really into you, but just wants a piece of that cookie? To be honest, there’s no manual or handbook to know how, but I think you might be luckier if you watch out for these signs…
HE’S PERFECT
We know there’s no such thing as a perfect human, but I’m sure you’ll agree with me that there are people you meet, and it’s almost like they’re flawless; like they can do no wrong. Everything they do makes sense. They know what to say to make you feel good, and they know how to please you. Now, I’m not saying all those things exactly make him evil, I’m just saying that it’s possible he’s doing those things to cover up his intentions. Because to be honest, we have our flaws, and we’re not afraid to show them to those who love us the way we love them. If someone for some reason, tries to make you believe he’s flawless, you might need to double check their intentions.
HE’S EVASIVE OF COMMITMENT TOPICS
If someone loves you, trust me, they’re always willing to take that relationship to another level, and reassure you of their unconditional love. A player would be evasive of committing to you because he’s not even really into you. Of course, he’s not going to say it in a way you think he’s not, he’ll tell you he loves you ‘so much’, and that’s all that should matter. He could also add that he’s trying to set up a ‘great married life’ first before tying the knot with you. So be careful and watchful around men like that, ladies.
YOU CAN’T COME TO HIS HOUSE AT WILL
This scenario is rare, but it happens nonetheless. Some players will not tolerate you coming to their house unannounced because they’re scared what you might catch them doing stuff. However, they won’t do this without finding a good excuse to cover it up, and most of the time, the excuse is that it’s ‘the way’ they’re made. They just like things happening the way they’re meant to happen.
Like I said, don’t depend on this sign alone, because most men are too smart to do this. In fact, some have become so good at playing that they know when who comes to visit, so they wouldn’t a problem managing you in the mix too.
SECRETS AND MORE SECRETS
The interesting thing about this part of a player is that you never really know they’re keeping you in the dark about who they are and what they do unless you take time to really look closer. And the reason they’re so successful at this is because they blind you to it with fake love so much that you don’t even care.
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