Among other things, one of the goals of every normal man is to eventually find and be with his kind of woman; the type that would understand him, and give him joy. However, the thing about goals is that anyone can set them, but not everyone can achieve them…at least, not unless you’re going about it the right way.
Too many men want to be with their dream woman, but most have been unsuccessful at achieving this goal. “What could be responsible for their failure?” You may want to ask. Well let’s find out.
1. LACK OF A REAL SOURCE OF INCOME, GOALS AND DRIVE
The problem with a lot of single men is that they have no source of income. No job, no business, no hustle, no projections/goals and drive, yet they want a woman in their life…but it doesn’t work that way. Women are attracted to potential, progress, and success, not the opposite. No woman would be attracted to a man in whom they see nothing but stagnation, lack of focus, goals, and drive. So, if you lack those, you must first, correct your status before you even think about walking up to any woman to propose marriage or a relationship. Stop deceiving yourself with all that ‘good women don’t care about money’ bullsh*t because by allowing such thoughts to creep in, you subconsciously set limitations for yourself. Yes, some women don’t care about money, but that doesn’t mean they’d stupidly walk into a direction-less relationship with any man. A lot of women out there date with the intent of growing the relationship into marriage, and there is no sane woman that wants to be married to a man without vision. Your dream woman isn’t going to come your way unless you address your financial status and show genuine effort toward bettering yourself.
2. LACK OF CONFIDENCE AND COMPOSURE
It’s not only broke and ‘goal-less’ folks who have a problem landing their dream woman, there are those who have a good financial backbone, yet they don’t have a serious woman in their lives simply because they lack the sort of composure and confidence that is required of a man. There are men who have lady interests, but just cannot muster up some boldness to walk up to them, and bare their feelings, instead they keep them bottled up and continue to die in silence. I understand that some people are naturally shy, but I also think there should be a limitation to shyness. If you cannot walk up to her because she’s with her friends, you should be able to while she’s alone. Simply, walk up to her with a good smile, and tell her you like her. It’s not rocket science, really. You’d be amazed at the number of women who would say ‘yes’ to you if you would just walk up to them and share your feelings.
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