4 EXCUSES WOMEN GIVE FOR BEING SINGLE

Isn’t there an excuse for everything? For being broke, for being stupid, for being jobless, for being single — heck, some even have an excuse for being the person they are. But the truth is while some of those excuses may be genuine, there are some that simply can’t hold water. If I don’t know anything, I know that we humans are very smart, and will say/ do anything to get outta trouble or save our reputation.

Alright, the focal point of this post is single women and the excuses they give for not having a man in their life. There are a lot of them, but I’ll stick to the ones we can all agree to hearing often.

1. ‘I’M SINGLE AND HAPPY’

Well, true. I know that there truly are women who make a conscious decision to stay single… For no reason— so, I won’t generalize. However, it’s also a known fact that there are lots of women who just hide under this excuse because they’re unable to land a man. There are women who cry behind closed doors, and wish they had a man to call their own, yet, they’ll be the ones to quickly tell you they’re ‘single and happy’… If only walls really had eyes.

2. WAITING FOR ‘MR RIGHT’/ ‘ALL MEN ARE THE SAME’

Everyone want the perfect person in their life, right? Of course, we all do, but we also know that there’s really no such thing as a perfect human being; we simply take the one that’s closest to it. So why would any woman claim she’s waiting for her ‘Mr right’ before she dates (again)? The reason isn’t far from the one I mentioned in the first excuse — some just can’t find a man. There are also those who have attitudinal problems, but won’t admit or acknowledge they do, so they live in the delusional thought that they’re not the problem, but the men in the world are. Until you snap out of that thought, you’ll not work on getting better as a person.

3. I’M NOT READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP

Studies have proven that half the times women say they’re ‘not ready’ for a relationship, they jump right into one the minute a man makes a move. This excuse still bores down to the fact that men are in short supply in their lives.

4. CELIBACY

It makes sense to use this excuse when you’re actually single and not involved with a man in any way. However, you find that a lot of women who hide under this excuse can’t keep up the act for long.

 

 

And those were some of the most falsely used excuses by women for being single. You too can share yours with us, if you think I missed out any.

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