If you do the right thing in your relationship, you’ll get the right results and if you do the wrong thing, you’ll get the wrong results.
So, why do people keep doing the wrong things in their relationships and find it hard to do the right things?
1. YOU DON’T KNOW THE RIGHT THING
If you don’t know the right thing to do, you’d end up doing the wrong thing. A lot of partners fight, quarrel and complain and live in bitterness because they don’t know the right thing to do or the right step to take. Trust me, if you know the right thing to do in your relationship, you’ll never be faced with that argument or fight.
2. THE WRONG MOTIVATION
A major reason people suffer in their relationships and make the wrong decision is because they are being fuelled by the wrong motivation; anger, control, bitterness, always wanting to be right, wanting all the attention — these things will only push you to take the wrong step.
3. YOU GET DISTRACTED
Your job could get you distracted, a silly argument could get you distracted and so many other things, to the extent that you’ll forget the simple things that you ought to do in your relationship – like show each other just how much you mean to each other every day. Wasn’t that the essence of the relationship in the first place?
Relationships go cold and marriages turn sour because people find it hard to do the right thing in their relationships. The moment you start doing the right thing in your relationship, you’ll start getting the right result.
Shawn