A lot of men make lots of mistakes during conversations with women. A bad conversation could be the reason you never get the woman you desire.
Below are 7 things not to do while talking to a woman
1. AVOID ARGUING
So many men ruin their conversations with women by constantly arguing. It’s supposed to be a conversation and not a time to argue. You do not always have to be right so avoid turning conversations into a never-ending argument. A conversation with a woman is not the perfect time to show off your debating skills. Avoid arguing.
2. YOU DON’T LISTEN
All some men know how to do is talk endlessly; they never take a break to listen to the woman they are having a conversation with. A conversation shouldn’t be one-sided. Be a good listener and don’t just pretend to listen. Ask interesting questions during a conversation as this helps the conversation flow from both sides. Also try to understand her point of view.
3. YOU USE TOO MANY SWEAR WORDS
When hanging out with your guys, it’s common to use swear words but avoid using swear words when having a conversation with a woman. Learn to keep swear words away when having a conversation with her or your first conversation with her might just be your last conversation with her.
4. YOU’RE INTRUSIVE
Avoid asking intrusive questions while having a conversation with her. Intrusive questions like “why are you not married and still single” should be avoided. Avoid making her feel like she’s been interrogated. One wrong question asked might just ruin the conversation.
5. YOU DON’T MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT
You appear to her as a man who isn’t confident when you don’t maintain eye contact during a conversation. When you avoid eye contact with her, you make her feel that you don’t consider her your equal or you are just too scared to look her in the eye. Learn to keep your nervousness under check; maintain eye contact and smile at her.
6. YOU ARE NOT AUDIBLE
You ruin your conversation with her when you are not audible enough. Sometimes as men, we end up talking too fast to overcome our nervousness but this kills the conversation. Learn to slow down and be more audible during conversations with women.
7. YOU JUST ENJOY TALKING ABOUT YOURSELF
Don’t make the conversation about you alone. Make the woman you are having a conversation with feel important by talking about her too. The conversation shouldn’t be centred on you alone. It’s not a lecture but a conversation.