Every time a guy asks a lady out, one answer he would gladly love to hear is ‘yes’. But not every lady you ask out would give you the ‘yes’ answer.
Sometimes a lady wouldn’t be interested in you and would change her mind later on and give you a positive answer if you linger on; sometimes, she would be mixed about her emotions and unsure of you and unsure of herself being with you, while at other times, she would give you a big ‘NO’ for an answer.
Most men don’t know the answer to expect when wooing a lady, but her response to you would definitely let you know if she would give you ‘no’ for an answer.
Continue below as I reveal 5 signs she wouldn’t say ‘yes’ to you
1. SHE WOULD TAKE YOU FOR GRANTED
When a lady likes a guy, she would definitely enjoy the moments he spends asking her out, also, when she isn’t too sure of being with him, her reactions would also be 50-50; she would give you the green light today and act different tomorrow. However, when she has no interest in you, she would take you for granted and leave you frustrated at all times with no indication of ever saying yes to you – except she’s probably gaining gifts and monetary items from you wooing her.
2. SHE WOULD NEVER CALL YOU
When a lady you’re asking out probably likes you, she could call you or probably check up on you sometimes, same goes for the guy she has a little something for; but she would never call a guy she has no interest in except when she wants some favours; you would only be the guy she remembers when she needs a favour. If you are in this situation then that lady would only say yes to you for only two reasons – if she could gain something she lacks from you or just by a miracle.
3. THERE WOULD BE NO SPECIAL MOMENTS
When you are asking a lady out that could probably say yes to you, sometimes there could be special moments between you two or moments when you could just feel a connection. If you don’t get such special moments, it might just mean she doesn’t like you and your answer might just be a ‘NO’.
4. CALLS REVEAL A LOT
A lady that doesn’t want you would show that through phone calls; sometimes you would have to call her six different times before she picks a single call, sometimes she would hang up on you or put you on hold or just avoid your calls generally. Calls reveal a lot, even the way she responds to you on the phone would say a lot to whether she would give you that much hated ‘no’ answer.
5. HER GENERAL ATTITUDE
Her general attitude towards you would reveal whether she likes you or not; she might act shy and coy when she likes you or enjoys the fact that you are trying to woo her but when she doesn’t take interest in you, her general attitude would be bold, annoying and probably dry; she doesn’t like you, so she wouldn’t warm up to you so as not to give you the idea that she has an interest in you.
Sometimes men don’t understand these signs as they just keep on chasing a lady in the hope that they would get her which they probably wouldn’t.
It’s good to understand a lady’s stance or perception about you rather than act ignorant and look stupid.