If you desire a long-lasting relationship, there are certain rules you need to apply in your relationship. Falling in love is the easy part, staying in love is where the work really is. You should be prepared to put in work to make your relationship work and these relationship rules would definitely guide you.
1. What works for A might not work for B. This is because every relationship is different and unique. So ensure you learn from the success and failures of your relationship.
2. Always try to think from your partner’s perspective as this would ensure you have fewer issues to deal with in your relationship.
3. Being spontaneous would ensure the spark in your relationship remains. Don’t always wait for special moments to express your love. Every day should be a special moment to express your love.
4. Never let an argument linger for too long. Ensure you always end an argument as soon as possible.
5. Never be too busy for your partner. Learn to spend quality time with your partner as this would help your relationship grow.
6. Communication is very important in every relationship. Ensure you communicate regularly with your partner. Daily communication is very important for the growth of your relationship.
7. Your relationship should be built on the foundation of trust. Trust your partner and your partner’s instincts.
8. Avoid being too clingy and learn to give your partner space sometimes as everyone needs an ‘alone’ time. This would also help you two miss each other and help the passion in your relationship.
9. Always respect your partner.
10. Taking your partner for granted is the fastest way to ruin your relationship. Never take your partner for granted.
11. If you love your partner truly, then you should forgive your partner without holding grudges. Holding grudges is bad for your relationship.
12. Always be there to offer your shoulders to lean on when your partner is going through tough times. Ensure you always stand by your partner and never make your partner feel alone in this world during tough times.
13. Special days like birthdays and anniversaries should always be celebrated and never be forgotten.
14. No matter how angry you are, never argue with your partner in public. This is so wrong.
15. Compliment your partner regularly. Always appreciate your partner’s effort no matter how small. Even if it’s something your partner is supposed to do, you should also learn to appreciate.
16. Always look your best. Your partner wants that from you.
Phil