One surprising thing about ladies is the way they say something but mean something else; that is one thing about them that guys won’t totally comprehend.
Sometimes, a lady’s emotions get the better of her and she could say something she probably didn’t mean. Also, she could say something just to get at the man or just to pass a message or sometimes just to test a guy.
You think you should take a lady’s every word seriously? I would give you 14 reasons why you shouldn’t.
1. I HATE YOU
Have your lady ever told you I hate you? I hate you could mean so many things; she probably never meant that she hates you; I hate you could be “I just want you to treat me right”, “I love you”, “I just want you to show a little care”, “I don’t like what you’re doing”. Read what a lady means when she says “I hate you” for more. When she says “I hate you” in the heat of the moment, don’t get too scared, it could mean a different thing entirely.
2. I DON’T NEED YOU
This is another one most ladies say in the heat of the moment just to take a dig at her man. Sometimes she probably means the opposite but she says this so as not to look vulnerable.
3. IT DOESN’T MATTER
Now this is one trick they always pull with their words. Everything matters to a lady, even the slightest of things; women naturally don’t take things for granted. You think it doesn’t matter? Wait till the next week and she would probably give you a shocker. Everything matters to a lady, so don’t take things for granted when she says it doesn’t matter.
4. I TRUST YOU
I trust you? Lol. Even if she means she trusts you, that wouldn’t stop her from snooping through your phone and that wouldn’t also stop her from monitoring every hot female neighbour or colleague that’s your friend. Yea, so much for trusting.
5. I’M NOT ANGRY
This is one tale that every lady has said; she says this even when it’s glaring that she’s pissed off; she knows this, you also know this. If not anything, never believe the “I’m not angry tale”; still try to make her happy even if she says this.
6. LET’S JUST BE FRIENDS
Now this is the one that gets most guys pissed off. Come on ladies, for goodness sake this is heartbreaking. Let’s just be friends; are we in kindergarten? Worst part is, they may like you most times and still come up with that crap or they just want you to keep chasing after them; now that’s the perfect definition of unfair.
7. I DON’T NEED YOU
This is another one ladies say in the heat of time; sometimes they say harsh words to their man just to get him to sit up. This might just be a simple message saying “I need you but you need to do more”.
8. I DON’T CARE
What??? Don’t be deceived bro, she cares. This is one sentence that’s at the tip of every lady’s tongue; so when you hear this statement, don’t go about thinking she doesn’t care; she actually does.
9. WE NEED TO TALK
Naturally, we need to talk is supposed to mean we need to talk, but not in a woman’s territory. When she tells you “we need to talk”, that just means that you’re in trouble. I honestly wouldn’t wish to be you in this situation.
10. HAVE FUN
Now this one usually gets me laughing; do you really think she wants you to have fun? Come off it bro; that’s just her jealous way of saying “have a swell time but not with the ladies”.
11. DO YOU LIKE ME?
Well, she probably wants to know if you like her but the rationale behind it is she likes you.
12. TELL ME THE TRUTH, I WON’T GET ANGRY
That’s a trap man; a very big trap. She won’t be angry, maybe she’s right, cos she won’t just be angry but will as well be mad at you; you know it, she knows it.
13. YOU DON’T LOVE ME
Have you ever gotten this from your lady? Sometimes you just have to take a deep breath cos she doesn’t really mean this sometimes. She knows you love her, she probably just wants to hear it; now that’s cunny.
14. I LIKE THE GIRL YOU WERE TALKING TO
In your dreams man, just start telling her who that girl is or you’re in soup. Ladies get jealous easily, so be ready to start giving some explanations when she starts saying this.
In the dating world, women might mean one thing and just say another, so you really ought to listen to details to know exactly what she’s saying, else you would just keep going from one problem with her to another.
Shawn