We always preach about the importance of tolerance and compromise in a relationship because no relationship can be successful without tolerance and compromise.
However, there are certain things no one should ever tolerate in a relationship. You should never put up with a partner who exhibits any of the traits listed below.
Here are 12 things no one should tolerate in a relationship
1. If your partner truly loves you, he/she would never devalue you and make you doubt yourself. Never tolerate any form of emotional or verbal abuse from your partner.
2. Physical abuse shouldn’t be tolerated in any relationship. A partner who abuses you physically doesn’t deserve to be with you. Be kind to yourself and walk out of that relationship.
3. Never tolerate a partner who shares information about your private live with others. A mature relationship partner should understand the importance of respecting boundaries in a relationship. If your partner keeps sharing private information about you despite your protests, it’s time to hit the road.
4. You should never tolerate a partner who pressures you to engage in sexual activities you aren’t comfortable with because they think it’s your duty or you owe it to them.
5. You should never tolerate a partner who always accuses you of cheating on him or her. A partner who accuses you of cheating even when there is no cause for suspicion doesn’t deserve to be with you. You deserve someone who can trust you.
6. You should never tolerate a partner who tries to isolate you from friends. It’s wrong for your partner to try to isolate you from people who have been in your life before the relationship.
7. You should never tolerate a partner who doesn’t publicly acknowledge your relationship. Your relationship shouldn’t be a secret and you shouldn’t be with someone who is ashamed to be with you. You deserve to be with someone who is proud to be with you.
8. You should never be with a partner who shames you for your appearance, weight, height, accent etc. You are beautiful just the way you are and you deserve a partner who knows this.
9. Never tolerate a partner who makes you feel like you are always last on his/her priority list. You shouldn’t be an option to anyone, you are better off without that relationship.
10. You shouldn’t tolerate a partner who doesn’t respect your thoughts and decisions. In a relationship, it’s important for your partner to respect your thoughts and decisions whether he or she agrees with it or not.
11. Never tolerate a partner who constantly brings up your past to shame you. We all have something in our past we aren’t proud of, so it’s important you don’t tolerate a partner shaming you about your past.
12. You should never tolerate a partner who blames you for everything that goes wrong in the relationship. A partner who thinks he/she is always right and blames you for everything that goes wrong shouldn’t be tolerated.
Phil