So many people remain in a relationship that is heading nowhere when it’s so obvious the best thing they could do is quit that relationship and move on. If you are seeing these signs listed below in your relationship, you should know it’s time to move on.
Below are 12 signs it’s time to quit that relationship
1. YOUR PARTNER PUTS IN NO EFFORT
If your partner puts in no effort to make the relationship work, then it’s time to quit that relationship and move on. It shouldn’t just be you trying to make it work, your partner also has a role to play and that’s why it’s called a relationship.
2. YOUR PARTNER TRIES TO CHANGE YOU CONSTANTLY
Your partner should cherish you for who you are and not try to constantly change you. You shouldn’t be with someone who contradicts your personality and complains about everything that represents you. If your partner truly loves you, he/she won’t change you from who you are to who you don’t want to be.
3. YOU ARE HOPING YOUR PARTNER BECOMES A BETTER PERSON
It’s time to quit that relationship if your partner treats you bad always and all you do is hope and pray that your partner changes. You should understand that you don’t have the power to change anyone. Don’t expect your partner who treats you bad to suddenly change because of your pain. Find someone who would treat you better.
4. YOUR RELATIONSHIP HOLDS YOU BACK
A good relationship should help bring out the best in you so if your partner holds you back from reaching your dreams and achieving your goals, that’s a sign it’s time to quit the relationship. Don’t remain in a relationship that holds you back.
5. YOU THINK YOUR EX IS BETTER
It’s time to quit that relationship and move on if you think your ex is better than your present partner. You left your ex because it couldn’t work between the two of you, so you shouldn’t move to a relationship that is worse, you should move to a relationship that is better. If your current relationship is so terrible that all you do is think of your ex, then it’s time to quit that relationship.
6. REPEATED MISTAKES
If your partner keeps making the same mistakes over and over again, it’s time to quit that relationship and move on. No one is perfect and we all make mistakes but if your partner truly cares about you, he/she would learn from the mistake and try not to repeat the same mistake.
7. DIFFICULT TO PLEASE
It’s time to quit that relationship and move on if you are with someone who is really difficult to please. Why waste your time and energy being with someone who’s so difficult to please no matter how hard you try?
8. YOUR RELATIONSHIP DRAINS YOUR ENERGY
If you are in a relationship that drains you instead of making you stronger, then you should know that it’s time to leave. Don’t remain in a relationship with so much negative energy that leaves you feeling drained.
9. CONSTANT COMPLAINS
If your partner makes you feel bad about yourself due to his/her numerous complains, then it’s time to quit that relationship and move on. You should be with someone who appreciates your efforts whether big or small and not someone who always looks for an opportunity to complain.
10. YOU CAN’T BE YOURSELF
If you are in a relationship where you can’t be yourself, then you should quit that relationship and move on. You shouldn’t remain in a relationship in which you live in fear and you just can’t speak out. You shouldn’t remain in a relationship in which you feel suffocated and can’t express yourself freely.
11. THE SAD MOMENTS EXCEED THE HAPPY MOMENTS
If the happy moments in your relationship are just too few, then it’s time to quit the relationship. A good relationship should make you happy and always give you happy moments to think about. Be with someone who loves seeing you happy.
12. YOUR PARTNER PHYSICALLY OR VERBALLY ABUSES YOU
If you are in a relationship where your partner physically or verbally abuses you, then it’s time to quit that relationship. You deserve better than being with someone who abuses you. It’s time to quit that abusive relationship and move on because you are better off without him/her.
Phil