Some men are so stiff hearted that they lack so many tips that would make them romantic; sorry for being brash but we all know that’s the truth.
Being a romantic man would only make your relationship better and make your lady love you even more. Ladies are fragile hearted (so to say); we love it when our man knows the right way to send us to the moon and back; when he knows the perfect word to turn our tears to smiles; that’s the man of many women’s dreams.
However, not everyone knows how to be romantic but certainly everyone can learn how to be romantic.
I bring you twelve romantic tips that every man needs sweep his lady off her feet.
1. WE FIND CANDLE LIGHT DINNERS VERY ROMANTIC
The emotions and feelings that come at night are way different from the mood and feelings in the day time. Nights are special and naturally romantic but adding a candle light dinner would just make every lady squeal within her; it’s not just romantic but it’s perfectly romantic.
2. BE GOOD WITH WORDS
To some men, this comes naturally but it’s a must for a man to learn how to be good with words. Know how to be funny, know when to be motivational, know what to say when she’s sad, know what to say to make her smile; when you are good with words, ladies would see you as the perfect gentleman.
3. BE THE PERFECT GENTLEMAN
The perfect gentleman never hurts his lady; he is there for her at all times, he picks her up when she’s stranded, he opens doors for her, he’s a shoulder for her when she’s down. In simpler words, a perfect gentleman is one that treats his lady specially.
4. DANCE OKAY
This may not be a must but it’s romantic when a guy just knows how to move to a beat when dancing with his lady. He doesn’t have to be a Chris Brown or Usher, but a little of the basic would make him look attractive on the dance floor.
5. BE DIFFERENT
The truth is ladies admire spontaneity; a man with something different, one that we haven’t seen before, one who keeps us guessing and still surprises us even the more. Being different is definitely romantic; anything apart from the unusual would never put a lady on her toes.
6. NEVER FORGET IMPORTANT DATES
This is a must; important dates such as anniversaries and birthdays and any other date a lady holds dear to her heart should never be forgotten. Dates to us are very special and remembering them means you put us at heart always.
7. DRESS GOOD
A well-dressed man is always charming and if you think women don’t find that romantic then you need a re-think. A man who knows what do with his fashion is charming and attractive; ladies love it when their man is admired by all.
8. CALL TO SAY YOU MISS US
Hmmm …show me a lady who doesn’t find this romantic; she might never exist, every lady smiles at this act as far as it’s done in a unique way. This kind of call brings a special feeling; it’s loving, romantic and makes you feel valued.
9. DO SOMETHING SHE’D NEVER EXPECT
Yes, take your lady by total surprise; do something that you have never done for her, do something that she would never believe you would do. We don’t just find this attractive but we find it awesome.
10. NOTICE THE LITTLE THINGS
When a man takes notice of his lady down to the little things that men hardly notice, it is romantic; it sends a message that the man actually cares. When you notice her lingerie, an ear-ring, her favourite colour, a new hair-do, her smell, her favourite meal, her favourite TV program down to the slightest details that doesn’t even matter, it sends a message and ladies find that romantic.
11. SHOW CARE IN FRONT OF FRIENDS
When you show a lady that you actually do care about her in front of her friends especially, it makes her feel on top of the world and this is definitely romantic. This act would make her feel valued and make her friends grin with envy; ladies find this romantic.
12. COMPLIMENT US
Who says it isn’t romantic to compliment us? Complimenting your lady shows that you appreciate her and that would definitely make her happy. Ladies love a man who can make them feel valued and we actually find this act very romantic.
If you haven’t been a romantic man to your lady, now is the time to change because being unromantic is never a selling point.
A romantic man makes his lady feels valued and in return she values him even the more.
Viv
Lessons learned. Thanks.