11 THINGS EVERY WOMAN SHOULD TELL HERSELF EVERY MORNING

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Being a woman comes with its own challenges, and being a strong woman takes a lot of courage and self-determination. If you don’t have the right mentality as a woman then the society would push you aside and you would seem valueless.

There is really power in words; what makes those words powerful is the belief that backs up the word.

To be that strong woman you can be proud of, there are certain things you need to say to yourself every day, and you need to believe those words too.

1. I’M BEAUTIFUL

Some women have low self-esteem and this isn’t good. I’ve seen very beautiful ladies who have no clue of how good-looking they are and treat themselves like they aren’t; the truth is, if you don’t believe you are beautiful, everyone would see you and treat you like that ugly-looking woman. Wake up every morning, stare at the mirror and tell yourself ‘I’m beautiful’; appreciate yourself.

2. I’M A KEEPER

Shawn in his article defined a keeper as that lady every man so desires to meet, and that’s true. Every woman can be that keeper kind of woman only if they want to. If you see yourself as someone who men would look at and scramble to have in their lives then that’s you would be. No buts, no ifs; see yourself as that woman every man would value to keep in his life and that’s the person you would be.

3. I’M NOT A SEX SLAVE

Whether you admit it or not, most women are used just for the sex only under the pretence of being in a relationship. If you value yourself and your body then no man can use you just to satisfy his sexual urge; wake up every morning and say to yourself ‘I’m not just an instrument for sexual purposes.

4. I’M BEAUTIFUL ON THE INSIDE

Sometimes the beauty we can see isn’t just enough; you can have the most beautiful face on earth, but if you don’t have a beautiful character or personality to match then you wouldn’t be deemed as attractive by many. So the inside is just as well important; wake up every morning with the mentality that you have not just a beautiful face but a beautiful character as well, and you would be that charming person.

5. I’M AMAZING

If you are amazing then you are amazing; if you aren’t amazing then you aren’t amazing, there are no two ways about that. Wake up every morning with the mentality that you are amazing. The dictionary defines amazing as ‘great wonder’, see yourself as a wonder.

6. I LOVE ME 

There is nothing wrong in loving yourself; if you don’t love yourself, it would be difficult for someone to love you. Treat yourself how you want others to treat you; love other people but don’t forget to love yourself in the process.

7. I’M A STRONG WOMAN

Too many times, women believe that they need someone to complete them and because of this they lack that independence or strength to do things on their own. You are a whole person already; someone coming into your life is a plus. Be that strong independent woman who can forge ahead in life no matter what, and wake up every morning telling yourself that.

8. I TRUST MY ABILITIES

Every woman should have dreams and she should trust her abilities to chase those dreams. Learn from your past mistakes and still trust yourself that you have all it takes to be who you want to be; say this to yourself and believe every word of it.

9. I AM PROUD OF WHO I AM

There is nothing wrong in appreciating yourself sometimes. Rather than get frustrated at what you don’t have, look at the things you have, the person you have become and the things you’ve achieved and be proud of it, not forgetting where you aim to be in the future.

10. I’M CONFIDENT

A lot of women lack confidence in themselves and confidence is needed in life. Do not let fear and insecurities sweep away your confidence; a confident woman is a woman to behold, while a woman who lacks confidence is not worth the attention. Wake up every morning to the feeling that you’re confident and believe every word of it.

11. I’D LEARN FROM MY MISTAKES

Making a mistake is one thing, but not learning from the mistake is even the bigger mistake itself. Wake up every morning with the mind-set that you are going to learn from the mistakes of the previous years, and only by this can you be that better person.

 

What you do is who you really are; say these words to yourself every morning and that’s who you would become.

Viv  

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