A lot of women blame a bad relationship on the man, but women make a lot of mistakes in their relationship — and the worst part is that many women don’t even know or acknowledge their mistakes.
These are some of the huge mistakes women make
1. YOU DON’T TRY TO UNDERSTAND YOUR MAN
A lot of women want to be understood in their relationship, but they forget to understand their man in the process or even make an attempt to. Many women even believe that it’s the role of the man to understand his woman, but they never turn the table around.
2. YOU TRY TO CHANGE YOUR MAN
This is another huge mistake a lot of women make; they try to change their man and they don’t even accept him for who he is. A lot of women even make it worse by trying to change their man from the things he really wants in life.
3. TRYING TO CONTROL THE RELATIONSHIP
With some women, it’s a battle for supremacy; they seek control of the relationship, and they even want their will to be done at all times. This isn’t just wrong, but it would also make your man feel emasculated.
4. YOU DON’T APPRECIATE WHAT HE DOES FOR YOU
A big mistake a lot of women make is by not appreciating their man enough. When you don’t appreciate the things he does for you — especially the little things, you’re making a huge mistake.
5. YOU ARE QUICK TO CREATE DRAMA
When you nag a lot, get pissed off easily and love causing a fight — that’s a terrible mistake that could make the relationship toxic.
6. YOU KEEP SCORES
There are women who would keep scores of incidents that happened months and even years ago. You show you are immature and you make your relationship toxic when you do this.
7. YOU WANT A PERFECT MAN
Is there really a perfect man? I doubt it. But a lot of women want the perfect man and put their man under pressure to be perfect, without accepting his flaws and imperfections.
8. YOU COMPARE YOUR MAN TO ANOTHER MAN
No man would want to be compared to another, but many women make the mistake of comparing their man to another man they probably don’t know his flaws. Comparing your man with another wouldn’t help your relationship in any way.
9. YOU DON’T RESPECT HIM ENOUGH
Another mistake a lot of women make is by not respecting their man enough. You ought to respect your man, his decisions (even when you don’t agree), his space, his goals and what he wants in life.
Not respecting him enough is a terrible mistake to make.
10. BEING SELFISH
A lot of women try to use the “I’m a woman” rhetorics to make things go their way; a lot of women are self-centred in their relationships; they think only of themselves and want things to go their way always.
11. LETTING YOUR FRIENDS INTERFERE
I’ve seen a lot of relationships go wrong because of interference from friends. When you let your friends give you bad advice or you tell them everything going on in your relationship, you put your relationship at risk.
These ten mistakes happen a lot, and a lot of women are guilty of it.
ViV