10 THINGS MEN SHOULD KNOW ABOUT WOMEN

Shawn previously worked on 10 things women should know about men, and like they say “what’s good for the goose is good for the gander”; so I had to do it the other way round; after all, women have feelings too.

Women have the way they feel about certain things, they react differently too and they are special in a very different way.

Like a male friend of mine would always say “if you want your relationship to be happy, make your lady happy”. And this is so true, when the woman is happy, everyone else would be happy.

So men need to know certain things about women, and they just might have a wonderful relationship.

Continue reading below as I bring ten things men should know about women

1. WE LOVE SPECIAL TREATMENTS

I don’t think any lady out there would want to be treated otherwise; we love it when we are special and treated as such by our man. Treating us as special just sends a message to us that you value us, and sometimes that’s all we need. When our man treats us as special, we feel on top of the world

2. SPECIAL DOESN’T ONLY MEAN IN THE BEDROOM

By special, we don’t mean just in the bedroom or on the couch or just when we are alone; no. We love to be shown care both outside and inside; treat us like we mean everything to you even when you are with your family, when you are with friends, and when the neighbours are watching. If you do this to your lady and she doesn’t reciprocate then she doesn’t deserve you.

3. THE FACT WE LOVE YOU DOESN’T MEAN YOU SHOULD TAKE US FOR GRANTED

I wonder why men do this sometimes; when a lady shows that she overly loves a man, he gets used to it and takes it for granted. This is so wrong; we show that we deeply care so that you would treat us like you love us. No lady would want to give out her heart and be given rag treatment in return; one day she might just get tired and leave; and it might just be too late.

4. WE HATE WHEN YOU THINK WE DISTURB

Men sometimes just have this ill-fated notion that women could sometimes be disturbing. We know football time is football time but that doesn’t mean you would totally forget about us; we could sometimes be a pain in the butt, but that’s why we chose to be your favourite lady, and if you can’t handle our excesses then the relationship would never go anywhere.

5. IF YOU’VE CHEATED IN THE PAST, TRUSTING YOU MIGHT TAKE ALMOST ETERNITY

Forgiveness and trust are two different things. The fact that we might have forgiven you for cheating doesn’t mean you would gain our trust that easy; that would take a very long time. Cheating hurts and we hate it; cheating is just another way of saying you don’t see us as satisfying – truth be told.

6. WE ALWAYS LOVE YOUR COMPLIMENTS

Your compliment means a lot to us; after all if you don’t compliment us, who should? Sometimes a woman dresses good just to make her man proud and happy, and if he doesn’t compliments, it feels like time wasted. The compliments of our man means more than a thousand compliments from outsiders; but when we don’t get the compliment from you, we might start to value that of outsiders.

7. WE LOVE GETTING ALL THE ATTENTION

We love it when we get the attention of our man. Sometimes all a lady just needs is the attention of her man. When her man gives a lady all the attention she needs, it makes her feel special.

8. LOOK GOOD FOR US TOO

We love to take pride in you too; most times, men talk more about women dressing well and looking sexy forgetting that women also love it when men look good. We love to take pride in our man; that means you should also look good for our sake.

9. WHEN YOU SAY YOU LOVE US, MEAN IT

Don’t just say you love us to make us happy, that’s trickery. Say you love us because you actually love us, and it has to be just us. Don’t tell us you love us when you have also told a hundred other ladies out there, it counts for nothing; you have to be serious about it; it’s either them or just we alone; set your priorities.

10. WE GET JEALOUS BECAUSE WE CARE

We get jealous because we actually do care about you; so stop complaining that we get jealous too easily; rather start complaining when we stop getting jealous. The truth is if we don’t care about you, we would never feel jealous.

 

Every lady out there wants a good relationship with her man. Every lady wants to be treated with respect, love and care. Ladies aren’t machines that are just created to show love; we want to be loved in return.

Hope you had a good time reading this, and I’m pretty much sure I spoke the minds of most ladies.

Viv

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1 Comment on "10 THINGS MEN SHOULD KNOW ABOUT WOMEN"

  1. Jallow Abiesatou | January 29, 2015 at 5:51 pm |

    thanks for the information given herein, as I am very jealous and this will really help me adjust myself. Wen I am inlove with some one, I go beyoung measurable in which i dnt get that in return, das why am afriad to love again.

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