While it’s really important for every woman not to be a nag in her relationship, it’s also necessary ladies become more honest in their relationship by telling their man how they really feel sometimes.
Below are 10 things every lady should tell her man
1. TELL HIM WHAT YOU WANT
So many ladies suffer in silence and end up going through serious heartbreaks when all they could have done is just tell him what they want. There are certain qualities every lady expects from her man and it is important you communicate this to him so he knows what you expect from him. If you hate your man being late always, tell him.
2. LET HIM KNOW WHEN YOU ARE ANGRY
Instead of keeping it to yourself and expecting your man to find out, it’s important you let him know when he upsets you. Don’t expect your man to read your mind because he is no mind-reader. You do yourself no good when you store all of that anger inside of you.
3. TELL HIM WHAT YOU EXPECT FROM HIM IN BED
Every woman has different needs in bed so it is important you communicate your needs in bed to him. Tell him the things you would want him to do to you in bed and tell him you would prefer he does differently in bed. Telling him this would definitely improve your experience in bed with him.
4. TELL HIM THE THINGS YOU EXPECT HIM NOT TO DO
If you want to avoid getting upset all the time, please tell him the things you don’t expect from him. Tell him the things he does that you prefer he doesn’t do and also the things you wish he could do differently.
5. TELL HIM IF YOU FIND IT DIFFICULT TRUSTING HIM
Maybe you caught him cheating or maybe he did something that has broken your trust and made it difficult for you to trust him again, it’s important you tell him about this. Your man needs to be aware you no longer trust him so he knows he has got to rebuild the trust.
6. TELL HIM IF YOU ARE NOT HAPPY IN THE RELATIONSHIP
Leading him on when you know you are not happy in the relationship is really bad. It’s important you let him know so you both can find a solution to the problem. Pretending everything in the relationship is fine when it’s obvious to you that it isn’t fine is wrong.
7. LET HIM KNOW WHEN YOU ARE IN A BAD MOOD
As women, we tend to have terrible mood swings sometimes. It’s really important you let him know when you feel you are in a bad mood rather than snap at your man and have him wondering what went wrong.
8. TELL HIM WHEN YOU NEED YOUR SPACE
Sometimes, you just want sometime with yourself. We all need an ‘alone time’ sometimes. I understand you might be scared doing this might hurt his feeling but you also need to know that not doing this might make you start acting weird to him.
9. TELL HIM ABOUT HIS FEMALE FRIENDS YOU ARE NOT COMFORTABLE WITH
If you know you are not comfortable with him being with some of his female friends, it’s important you let him know instead of allowing yourself to suffer in silence. It doesn’t mean you don’t trust him, it’s just you aren’t just comfortable with the whole idea. Let him know and avoid dying in silence.
10. ASK HIM WHERE YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS GOING
Never make the mistake of assuming you are on the same page with him. Sit him down and ask him about the plans he has for the relationship. You deserve to know where the relationship is going.
ViV