For a lady to have a successful relationship she ought to know how a man thinks, how he sees things and his ideology in general; most importantly she ought to know how a man feels.
When a lady is clueless about the way a man feels, she definitely wouldn’t be the better half that she ought to be as she would keep making mistakes upon mistakes
I have ten things every lady should actually know about men; and trust me when I say they are important.
1. MEN ALSO BELIEVE IN LOVE
There is this belief around town that men are strong hearted and men don’t love and all that. Honestly, that really is just one of those lies aimed at making the male gender look so super tough. The truth be told, men also want to love and be loved in return; however, they aren’t so secure about opening their heart, but if they meet that lady that can drive them crazy, they would be ready to do anything for her.
Forget all the movies, rap songs and rumours; men also secretly believe in love.
2. MEN ALSO LOVE COMPLIMENTS
Show me a lady that knows how to compliment a man, and I would show you a lady that has the key to her man’s heart. Men love when they are complimented too; it just brings this special feeling that his lady takes notice of him and appreciates him as well.
3. SEX ALMOST ALWAYS MEANS A LOT
No matter how much he says sex isn’t important, he knows deep within that it is. It’s not that he doesn’t care about his lady or that he prefers having sex over her, but sex is just a big part of a man’s life. He tries not to make this obvious but he knows deep within that he doesn’t just want sex but he needs it.
4. MEN LOVE WHEN THEIR LADIES ARE SUPER COOL
There is this unspoken bragging right among men when they have a super cool lady. Notice the difference between a man dating a very pretty lady and an average lady; the man with the pretty lady somehow wants everyone to know that he’s her man. It’s just a male ego thing and nothing more.
5. A LADY THAT CAN COOK IS ALWAYS A PLUS
Forget all the gimmicks; if you can cook then it’s definitely a plus. Men love it when a lady can cook up things that would take his nostrils to wonderland. I think every man would definitely appreciate a woman who’s a good cook; ladies that are good chefs have a way of leaving a lasting memory in a man’s heart. Women sometimes say that the road to a man’s heart is sometimes through his belly.
6. MEN GET JEALOUS TOO
Even if he tries not to show it, men sometimes get jealous when a lady gives him even 5% chance of suspecting anything; not that he doesn’t trust his lady, but he doesn’t trust the other man. Men have a way of not trusting their other men, so when he notices a kind of fondness with another man, he feels slightly jealous, even though he tries not to show it.
7. MEN ARE TWO FACED ABOUT AN INDEPENDENT WOMAN
The modern man truly loves an independent woman; only the old-fashioned man would prefer a woman that would depend on him for everything. However, even the modern man would somehow get uncomfortable when his independent lady is overly independent. Men love when they are the man and if his lady needs him for totally nothing, it somehow rubs him off that ‘man’ feeling.
8. HIS FRIENDS ARE A BIG PART OF HIS LIFE
A man’s buddies are like his brothers; they are a big part of him. Some ladies in a relationship love all the attention that they would prefer if a man has little or no time for his friends. A man’s friends are more than friends to him, and life without them would be boring to him, but that doesn’t mean you are any less important to him. He would appreciate you more if you can understand his friend’s role in his life.
9. JUST TELL HIM WHAT YOU WANT
Men live a straight forward life; they prefer when things are done directly with no hitches but the female gender is like the direct opposite. All those sulking and all that ladies do sometimes get to him; even when he’s doing the pampering and petting, he would actually prefer if you could just tell him what the problem is and then move on.
10. TAKE PRIDE IN HIM
Some women take pride in their man, and this gives men a feeling which they just can’t explain. When a lady takes pride in her man, it makes him feel ultra-special, and he would want to even do much more for this kind of lady. Ladies want their man to take pride in them but they forget that men also have feelings, and feeling of being valued and appreciated is one of them.
I planned writing on ten things, but who said a bonus is a bad idea? Women love it when their man is romantic, but not all men know how to be romantic. Some even try as hard to be romantic, but it doesn’t just work well for him. I think ladies should know that the unromantic man who’s trying to be romantic really does care a lot about her; maybe she should even help him out and spice up his ‘romantic’ style, and he would appreciate even the more.
Not all men are the same, to be honest; but I think this would most definitely go with almost all men.