Just before you head into that relationship, you need to ask yourself if you are really ready to be in a relationship.
Here are 10 signs you aren’t ready to be in a relationship
1. You aren’t ready to be in a relationship if you don’t love yourself. Until you learn to love yourself first, you can’t love someone else.
2. You aren’t ready to be in a relationship if you are unhappy about life. Relationships can’t make you happy. You need to first be a happy person before heading into a relationship.
3. You aren’t ready to be in a relationship if you still think about your ex. It’s always better to deal with your past and get proper closure before heading into a new relationship.
4. You aren’t ready to be in a relationship if you have trust issues. No relationship can succeed without trust so it’s important you work on yourself and learn to trust before heading into a relationship.
5. You aren’t ready to be in a relationship if you doubt whether you are truly in love or not. Before you head into a relationship, you should be sure of your feelings.
6. You aren’t ready for a relationship if you never have time for yourself. For a relationship to work, you need to spend quality time with your partner regularly.
7. You aren’t ready to be in a relationship if you want to have total independence. Being in a relationship will take some of your independence. If you don’t feel obligated spending time with your partner or talking about your whereabouts with your partner, then you aren’t ready for a relationship.
8. You aren’t ready to be in a relationship if you expect to have a perfect partner without flaws. There’s nothing like a perfect partner because we all have our flaws.
9. You aren’t ready for a relationship if you haven’t learned from your mistakes that ended your last relationship. If you still blame the demise of your last relationship only on your ex, then you aren’t ready for a relationship.
10. You aren’t ready to be in a relationship if you never accept you are wrong. You have to be willing to admit your wrongs and apologise to make a relationship work.
Phil