Shawn did an article on 10 signs the woman in your life is extremely special, and I loved that piece, and was compelled to do something similar, but of a man though.
Who’s a special man?
I had to check up the meaning of the word special in a dictionary so we could have a full grasp of who a special man is and two definitions from Miriam Webster dictionary struck me: first, “different from what is normal and usual”, and secondly, “distinguished by some unusual quality”.
So, this means a special man is a one of a kind man, and he’s someone that’s rare.
I’m sure some ladies have an extremely special man in their lives but for some reasons are unaware of the gem in their lives.
These are some signs of a special man.
1. HE’S TRUSTWORTHY
A special man is trustworthy; he’s the kind of man his lady can trust and he doesn’t do things to betray his lady’s trust. It’s difficult these days to find a man who’s faithful and honest, but a special man is more than that; he exhibits qualities and values that would make his lady trust him in every bit of the word.
2. HE VALUES YOU
Any man can have a girlfriend, fiancée or wife, but it takes a special man to really value his woman and treat her like she’s worth more than gold. If the man in your life makes you a priority then it’s because you are special to him, and it can only take a special man to treat you thus.
3. HE MAKES YOU FEEL SECURE
A special man would make you understand your place in his life; he would make you understand that you aren’t just his number one but his only one. He doesn’t create room for jealousy and rivalry; he lets you know that your place in his life is deeply rooted.
4. HE MAKES YOU FEEL LOVED
The feeling of love is a beautiful thing, but it’s only beautiful when you don’t only love but you are loved in return. A special man would make you feel truly loved; he doesn’t give you room to doubt his love for you. A special man would continually make you swoon because of his love for you.
5. HE HAS GOALS AND AMBITIONS
A special man isn’t the kind that’s lazy and without goals; a special man isn’t complacent, no! A special man has goals and ambitions; he has the drive and desire to succeed.
6. HE HAS PLANS FOR A FUTURE WITH YOU
A special man doesn’t leave you in the dark; he lets you know that he isn’t just there for the moment, but he wants a future with you and plans for one with you too.
7. HE ACCEPTS WHO YOU ARE
It only takes being special to completely accept another person. Everyone has flaws, everyone makes mistakes, but it takes an extremely special man to accept you for whom you are, without ridicule, derision and making a mockery of you.
8. HE LOVES TO PUT A SMILE ON YOUR FACE
A special man is the kind of man who loves to put a smile on his lady’s face; a special man derives joy in seeing his lady happy. He does things to make her happy, and in her happiness, he finds happiness.
9. HE TREATS YOU RIGHT
A special man treats his lady right; he treats her like a queen, he makes her feel beautiful and cherished, he treats her with respect and he lets her opinion count.
10. HE APPRECIATES HAVING YOU IN HIS LIFE
A special man appreciates his woman; he appreciates having her in his life and he appreciates the things she does for him. A special man is the man that doesn’t find it difficult to tell his lady ‘thank you’. He makes his lady feel appreciated and lets her know that her role in his life isn’t taken for granted.
A special man is no ordinary man; he takes his relationship serious and he lets the world know that he has a prized jewel in his life.
Many ladies take these things for granted, but a man who shows the above to his lady is an extremely special man.