When a guy is crushing on a lady, he would do crazy things that would make you laugh. Every guy can testify to have had at least one girl he’s crushed on and I’m no exception. Now let me tell you a short story of this girl I used to crush on in my early teenage years. She was so damn beautiful; one of the most beautiful girls I had seen at the time. Whenever I see her, I lose composure. You wouldn’t believe if I tell you that I had to walk miles just to see her face; I’d turn round and round her street just to see her face, and I did that almost every day. Now the worst part of it is I never got to talk to her; never knew her name; nothing— stupid. But that’s what a crush can do to a guy.
Most times, ladies don’t have a clue when a guy is crushing on them but someone out there is definitely crushing on you and waiting for the perfect time to talk to you which he wouldn’t do cos there is nothing like a perfect time. He would wait for it forever, just as I did.
There are two scenarios that happen when a guy is crushing on a lady. One is when he’s just friends with you and doesn’t know how to tell you that he’s got something for you; he’s just in the friend zone which he hates (you need to check out why every guy hates the friend zone). The second is when he isn’t even a friend; maybe he’s just like me in my case I pointed out above; just that guy around the block.
So I’d give you 5 signs a friend has a crush on you and 5 signs that guy around the block has a crush on you.
I’d start with the former; 5 signs a friend has a crush on you.
HE ALWAYS WANTS TO BE WITH YOU
When you have that male friend that ALWAYS wants to be with you, then it’s most likely he’s got something for you dear; guys always have motives for every action they take. You need to write this down in that diary.
ALWAYS ASKING YOUR FRIENDS ABOUT YOU
Why should it be just you he asks after? Why should it be just you he wants to know about, it’s no coincidence sweetie; he is into you. He wants to know more about you so he can act appropriately to get you.
HE WANTS TO KNOW IF YOU GOT A MAN IN YOUR LIFE
If he’s very interested in wanting to know if you have a boyfriend or if you are in a relationship or something then it’s a sign that he just might have that crush on you. Or do you think he just asks such questions to keep a tab or data of your life? Think twice.
HE NOTICES EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU
A guy that has a crush on you would notice every damn thing about you even to the tiniest detail. He knows so much cos he has been watching you; that’s what a crush can do to a guy. But if he has little or nothing for you, he would notice little or nothing about you.
HE GETS AWKWARD AROUND YOU
When a guy has a crush on a lady, he overly tries to act composed when with her and that can lead to him acting awkward. When he gives that awkward laugh or smile, then that guy might just be into you.
Now the next five signs are for the guys around the block that has a crush on you
CONTINUALLY STARING
When you have that guy around your area that’s always staring at you uncontrollably; then it just might be that he’s into you. Guys have that instinct of staring at a girl they like; they try to use their eyes to pass across a message.
LOOKING FOR A WAY TO HELP
Yea, he always look for a way to help you so that he can start that conversation or he keeps looking for cheap ways to talk to you; very cheap ones that are way too obvious.
HIS FRIENDS WOULD ALSO KNOW
He would most definitely tell his friends about his crush for you and they also would join the staring game. Some might even worsen it by pointing at you whenever you walk pass them; whenever you walk pass them, there would be that side comment about you; if you notice this, then someone somewhere is crushing on you.
ALWAYS SHOWS OFF AROUND YOU
Ladies hate when a guy always tries to show off when they are around but guys don’t know this. To them, they are trying to impress that lady so she might fall for him. So ladies, whenever you see a guy showing off with that car, phone or whatever then it’s a huge sign that he’s got a crush on you.
HE’D ALWAYS WANT TO SEE YOU
Whenever you notice that a guy is always bumping into you, you just keep seeing him everywhere you go, it might not really be a coincidence; that guy might just be stalking without you knowing. He has a crush on you so he just wants to see you every time; it gives him a good feeling; that is seeing you.
Now you have known them, 10 signs a guy is crushing on you; guess you have to pay me for giving these useful tips. Guys also crush too, ladies; and they can do so many weird and crazy things if they are crushing on a lady.
S.O.Z