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So do your partner, friends and people generally take you for granted? It’s really not a nice feeling when people take you for granted. The tips below would help you change the course of things so that people start respecting you and no longer take you for granted

1. One of the reasons why people take you for granted is because you hate issues and you are also non-confrontational. These people who take you for granted know you would never address an issue even if it bothers you.

2. Another reason people take you for granted is your inability to say ‘No’. You rather take up more responsibilities or commitments than utter the word ‘no’.

3. If you are always okay with any plan and you rarely voice your wishes or dislikes, people will always take you for granted.

4. It’s really nice to be a sweet person but when you just become too sweet, you end up being a people pleaser and it becomes too easy for people to take you for granted.

5. People would also take you for granted if they realise you are very indecisive and can never make up your mind about anything. People would always take you for a ride when you show them you don’t know what you want.

6. People would also take you for granted if you doubt yourself and don’t believe in your capabilities. When you find so many flaws in yourself and see others as flawless, people would take you for granted.

7. When you give people too much importance too soon, they end up taking you for granted.

8. If you desire to be appreciated by everyone, you leave yourself vulnerable to be taken for granted. Because you crave for their appreciation really bad, you don’t go against them and always accommodate anything they say, you would be taken for granted.

9. People also take you for granted when you give more than you get back. They know you would always give them your all no matter what they give in return. And when you decide to back away, these same people who take you for granted become upset and say you are the who’s changed for worse.

10. When you are too scared to stand up for yourself, that gives people the liberty to wrong you and take you for granted.




  1. Really amazing though, that’s just exactly what happened to me, but you what tank you so much for this wonderful article, I just realized that I was to easy to be manipulated, my eyes are open now thank you so much.

  2. Thanks fr bring back to reality with this tips cuz I was experiencing all those an pple hv taken my fr granted way too much.But it all ends now thank u much fr inspiring me to sit up..

  3. I love this article, I feel Numbers 4, 6 & 7 applies to me. I am gonna work on that….

  4. I so much appreciate the writers of this article, it is a good one indeed

  5. Teddy Mollel | May 26, 2018 at 9:59 pm |

    No. 9 is so true n it applies to me.
    Thanks for this article, I will work on that..

  6. Maria Helena | May 27, 2018 at 6:18 am |

    Thank you for this reading…
    Thanks to Lord I lately realized how vulnerable I use to be trying no matter how, to give my best to the others…to show how “good” I am.
    It’s over now. You wan’t to know me come closer… and I even adopted silence as an answer for some cases. It’s working.
    I am learning to be more confident on my self.

  7. jovitabesong | May 29, 2018 at 11:57 am |

    So so so so amazing!!! So grateful to the authors of this article. .. Honestly I learnt a lot especially number 6… Yooo u hv no idea the way I feel right now… Tx a lot. .

  8. Mwabi Nyirenda | May 29, 2018 at 5:28 pm |

    This article is really amazing. I feel like it happens to most people. It has helped out a lot.

  9. So tru

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