A lot of men have come to be used to dating very dependent woman that they no longer know that there actually exist independent women out there.
Independent women are real, and unlike their opposites, they act very differently in a relationship. If you have been with one, you know what I’m saying, but just in case you haven’t, then, I think this post is exactly what you need.
Here are some peculiarities you find in dating independent women.
YOU WON’T BE THE CENTRE OF HER EXISTENCE
This tends to happen with many independent women. She does love who she dates, but she has a life outside of dating, and she’ll make time for that life. She’ll be about her goals and dreams, her job, and her career. So do not expect her to be as clingy and overly emotional as a dependent woman.
SHE COULD REJECT YOUR HELP
While this doesn’t mean she doesn’t love and appreciate your support, it’s just not who she is. She’s used to taking care of her needs and all, and she understands what having responsibilities mean, so she won’t be eager to take your money, and add to your monthly expenses. There’ll be times she could take your assistance, but it won’t be regular.
YOUR CONNECTION CAN BE INSPIRING
Strong people with remarkable accomplishments do give inspiration. Likewise, your girlfriend will seek it in you. In other words, such a woman looks for valuable communication with a man.
YOU WILL BE ENJOYING A LOT OF FREEDOM
An independent girl loves to be free so she will likely fall for an independent man. If you are such a man, it is a big plus – you can manage your working tasks or go out with your buddies.
THERE’S NO ROOM FOR JEALOUSY
First off, she wouldn’t have time to cheat because of her busy career. If you try to make her feel like she’s not doing a good job of being faithful, you might lose her. Don’t tell her to stop a job because it ‘exposes her to bad situations’, and she isn’t used to that. She would rather walk.
SHE NEEDS A LOT OF LOVING
Just because she’s ‘strong’ and ‘focused’ doesn’t mean she’s less a human. She deserves love and attention just like you. Give her your best.
SHE ONLY SEEKS A COMPATIBLE MAN
As you already know, she’s not a regular woman. She’s driven, and she’s a go-getter. If she’s going to date, you must be her exact kind of man. Anything short of that isn’t acceptable.
DON’T THINK SHE OUGHT TO DO ANYTHING
The mere fact she is your girlfriend doesn’t mean you can put obligations on her against her will. On the other hand, independent people are usually open for discussion. Search for compromises together!
SHE DOESN’T LIKE TO PLAY STUPID GAMES
Like when you take a step forward and two steps back. This may work with dependent girls who don’t know how to entertain themselves. Girls we are talking about in this article are much more determined.
HER ATTITUDE IS RATHER PECULIAR
She may turn out to be stubborn, demanding, bold, aggressive etc. So yeah, this might be scary a little bit. At the same time, these qualities are splendid if people know how to use them right.
SHE LOVES FOR LOVE
She’s not into you because of money or material benefits; she’s solely there for the purpose of companionship and love. Never forget that.
LONG-TERM DATING IS HER PURPOSE
A woman who can afford to pay her own bills, and support herself will only be with a man because she wants some form of stability. If you’re offering anything short of that, she won’t dig it.