Friends are important and necessary in life. It goes beyond companionship; it’s also about benefitting in some way or another. The truth about making and keeping friends though, is that not all friends should be friends. There are people worth having around, and there are those you definitely don’t need around you. Here are 4 of them…
Ignorance is to an extent, a part of every normal human, because to be honest, no one knows everything. However, with that said, there are levels to ignorance. You can’t compare someone who knows nothing about a few things to others who know nothing about everything – there’s a difference. Being friends with people like that would slow down your mental growth because they would drag you down to their level rather than uplift you.
There’s an iota of doubt in most people, but the difference between everyone else and a negative person is the amount of doubt in them is far more overwhelming. They do not believe in positivity. They don’t believe that anything good can actually come out of anyone or anywhere. You do not need this kind of energy around you because it would stop you from moving forward, and conquering.
Friendship is a mutual arrangement where both parties benefit from each other in at least, most of life’s areas. Some friends are only there when you are doing very well, and there’s a lot of goodness to go around, but you size to see them once things get tough. This is wrong because They are only about your great moments, and not the bad ones. Friends like this will stop you from growing, and always find a reason to make you spend money.
Gossips don’t mind their business. They are constantly looking for a rumour or story to peddle around so as to destroy others. The truth about people like this is that they always manage to land in trouble with this lifestyle, and if you’re not careful, you’ll go down with them. Gossips talk about everyone, and would not hesitate to make you a subject if that sells them in good light to someone else.