Sex is such a big deal for a lot of men. Some have no control whatsoever when it comes to sex, and when a man wants to sleep with a woman, he can say anything, and tell all manner of lies to get into bed with her.
A lot of unsuspecting women have been deceived into having sex they probably wouldn’t have ordinarily, but for the following lies…
“I AM A VIRGIN”
Of course, there are men who are genuinely staying away from sex until the right time, but then, there are also those who would lie about their virginity just so they get into a lady’s pants. Guys use the virginity card on women they think or know are also virgins so as to get them to be very comfortable around them – comfortable enough for them to take advantage of their trust.
“I’VE NEVER FELT THIS WAY BEFORE”
There are true feelings, and there are false ones. Oftentimes, when a man says this, he rarely means it. The purpose is usually to make their target lady feel special and loved. However, once they get what they want, they are quick to turn off those ‘feelings’.
“I PRAYED ABOUT MEETING YOU”
Only Christian women can relate to this line. He’s not saying it because he means it half the time; he just wants you to think he’s very spiritual; as spiritual as you, so you have no reason to find him unsuitable for you. The truth is – he most likely doesn’t even know how to say ‘the lord’s prayer’.
“I DON’T WANT SEX UNTIL MARRIAGE”
The idea of this lie is to make you believe it’s truly not about sex, but about love and companionship, but give it two or three months, and he’ll start pressuring you for the same thing he lied about wanting.
“I EARN A FAT INCOME”
They say the loudest people are usually the most empty. No really rich guy wants to front his wealth before a woman to impress her; it shows by itself, so when a man starts telling you by himself how much he earns, he’s only trying to sell that to you because he probably thinks it’ll work, and make you jump in bed with him.
Women need to be more aware of these lies and tricks. Not every guy is being true or real to you. Sometimes, you just need to read beyond the lines. See beyond the lies, and you wouldn’t have to cry tomorrow.