When you’re in love, you don’t want it to end. This is the truth. For a lot of women (even men), there’s always a feeling of insecurity that hovers around you because you’re not sure how long what you have with your partner will last, or if they’re going to truly be there like they say. Well, as true as that is, it’s also very possible to be able to tell through certain signs, if the person you’re with is in for the long haul. Here are some of them.
HE SHOWS COMMITMENT
Does he care about the things that affect you (both positively and negatively), or is he the type that only cares about himself? A man who truly cares about you is always open to helping you through both the difficult and great times, and will never look for an excuse to bail.
HE DOESN’T SHY AWAY FROM PROBLEMS
A person who is very much into you knows that no one is perfect, so even when your flaws begin to show, he doesn’t just run away, he sticks with you, and tries to sort it all out with you. All relationships suffer setbacks. A couple that talk their hard times through always come out smiling in the other side. The type of man who doesn’t look for ways to tackle issues head-on when they appear, isn’t serious about being with you.
HE TAKES NOTICE OF THE LITTLE THINGS
A guy that cares about you very much pays attention to every little thing about you. He knows when you’re not happy, and when you’re feeling great. He knows what shows you like, and puts in the effort to see you smile. A man who cannot tell when you’re moody obviously doesn’t care.
HE MAKES YOU FEEL GREAT ABOUT YOURSELF
He honestly sees and believes that you are beautiful, and he always wants you to feel that way. He will do anything to make you feel special and will always remind you how great you are. Even on your bad days, he will always be there making you feel like you are the most beautiful woman he has seen.
HE LAUGHSAT YOUR MISTAKES
A guy who is truly into you would never make your mistakes a big deal – instead, he’ll just brush them off because he knows that there are more awesome things you are capable of doing. He will not take your lapses against you and will never let you feel bad for the unintentional things you did.
HE LISTENS AND STRIVES TO IMPROVE HIMSELF
We are all humans, and we’re liable to flip and lose ourselves now and then. However, as an adult you ought to also understand the need for maturity and growth if a relationship is going to work. So when he’s wrong, he accepts his faults and strives to improve on himself, so he can be the best he can be for you. And that’s because he genuinely understands that only his best is what you deserve.