So we made a post about the 7 types of men that women should run from earlier, and as great as it was, a lot of women asked that we make something similar for them too.
Since we’re not a biased website, and are simply about spreading wisdom, we had to listen to the ladies too. So this is about the 7 types of men women should avoid.
THE STINGY MAN
There’s a difference between a stingy man and a broke man. It’s important that we note that. While a broke man may not have much to give, a stingy man actually does, but doesn’t consider you important enough to give to. Is that honestly the kind of man you want to be with? The kind of man that makes up excuses for why they can’t give you money or buy you gifts even though they aren’t broke? You deserve better than that.
THE NAGGING MAN
I don’t know about the type of men you’ve been around, but there are men who also nag! Women do not own the rights to nagging, men also do nag. There are men who would rather argue and talk on and on about an issue than walk away from it. People who nag can keep you in a permanently depressed state because they don’t believe in happiness.
THE MAN WITHOUT AMBITION
Humans aspire to grow and get better with each passing day. One of the standout attributes of a real man is the type of dreams he has, and the things he does to achieve them. There are loads of men who claim to have dreams, yet they don’t show in their attitude they actually want to grow and be successful. A real man matches his ambition with drive and hard work. If your man has none of that, don’t let him drag you down with him, because honestly, you’re the company you keep. A man without ambition can kill yours.
THE WOMAN BEATER
Women beaters shouldn’t really be on this list because I don’t consider them men. Men are naturally stronger than women, so only a woman would consider fighting or hitting another woman. But jokes aside, a woman beater is a no-no because they can damage you, not just physically, but mentally too. Love should die where violence is.
THE MOMMY’S BOY
Most men were at some point, mommy’s boys, but then, eventually, they had to outgrow that stage of their lives, grew some balls, and became more mature. A typical mommy’s boy cannot make his own decision by himself without consulting mommy’s opinion. You don’t want that type of man. You want a man of himself, who can hold himself and you down like a real man should. Dating a mommy’s boy gives his mother room to influence your relationship.
Not every man cheat, but that’s not to say that those who fall to temptation once, apologise, and genuinely repent of it do not deserve a second chance. However, there’s a difference between making a mistake, and choosing to live a lie. Cheating once is a mistake, cheating twice is a choice. You don’t want to be with a man who doesn’t even respect you enough to stay true to his promise of faithfulness.
THE ULTIMATE LIAR
Who is an ultimate liar? An ultimate liar is the person who lies about 50% of the things he says. His word is never true. He’s always changing his position on several subjects. Today, he’s a manager at company A, tomorrow, he’s the owner of company B. Most liars also come up with lots of excuses as to why they can’t be there for you when they should.
So there you have it, ladies. Choose wisely! Do not settle for far more than you deserve.