There are a lot of guys and women who are in a relationship where they’re being used, and they have no idea about it. We’re taking a look at some of the signs that suggest so, and how to tell when one is in such a situation.
SHE GETS YOU TO LOWER YOUR STANDARDS
Dating isn’t about lowering standards, but about maintaining them (unless they’re bad). A partner is meant to make you better, and help you better yourself, goals, dreams and aspirations. When a woman steps in, and does the opposite, everything is wrong. There are men who do not stay out late at night, but start to once they’re in a relationship, I don’t see anything healthy about that.
YOU APOLOGIZE FOR EVERYTHING – EVEN WHEN YOU’RE RIGHT
I know dating is compromising and putting pride aside, but that’s actually when you’re wrong. You have no reason to keep apologizing when you’re right; it’s unfair. That just makes you weak and controlled. A woman who cannot accept she’s wrong isn’t ideal for you.
YOU’RE IN CONSTANT FEAR OF LOSING YOUR PARTNER
Love is beautiful and all, and we all want to continue being with the ones we care about. I get it, but not even when that relationship isn’t worth saving or so much that people begin to question your sanity. If you ever have to be scared for losing your relationship, it’s probably because they’ve drained your self confidence, and you have been made to think you’re nothing without that relationship.
YOU GIVE MORE THAN YOU GET
A relationship should be equally benefiting or at least, returning as much as you give it. Some guys just give, and get nothing in return. Some part with so much money to their partner, and she offers nothing back, not even advise or support when things get a little rough. If you’re in such a relationship, a reevaluation wouldn’t do you harm.