Falling out of love doesn’t happen overnight. Before you find yourself desiring an end to what you have between you and your man/woman, a series of events would have led up to that. Here are some of the things that would suggest you’re tired of a relationship.
YOU DON’T CARE IF THEY’RE HAPPY ANYMORE
In a normal relationship, the priority is to make each other happy. You put them first, and try to impress them always. When you stop feeling like you have to do any of that, and suddenly, it’s all about you, something is not right.
THE FIGHTS BECOME OFTEN
I think we all fight with our partner. Of course, it doesn’t have to be about throwing punches at each other, people fight verbally, get mad, and stop talking for some time, before straightening things out again. So fighting is normal, but it isn’t normal to do it all the time. If you and your partner get to the point where you fight every other day or week, it could be because the connection is not there as it once was.
YOU DON’T MIND CHEATING
As already pointed out, falling out of love means you’re no longer excited by your partner. Seeing them doesn’t make you smile anymore, and you don’t really care if they’re happy or not. It eventually gets to a point where you would probably contemplate cheating without feeling guilty about it.
YOUR SEX LIFE BECOMES BORING OR TOTALLY GONE
People who are happy with each other look forward to having sex. They anticipate it, they crave it, and the reason is because they find it really enjoyable. You can’t crave or continue to do something you don’t enjoy anymore, so it’s likely you’ll no longer feel the urge to have sex with your partner when things aren’t so great anymore in the ‘feelings’ department.
YOU’D RATHER BE ELSEWHERE THAN WITH THEM
When you want to be anywhere, but with him/her. Because really, what would you possibly want to be with them for? It’s not like you enjoy talking to them or you enjoy their company, so why not anywhere else right? Friends, family, as long as you have a good excuse to be away from them.
Dating doesn’t have to last forever. People fall in and out of love for numerous reasons. If you find yourself not feeling your relationship like you once did, and you try to fix it, but can’t, it may be a wise move to talk a walk. Happiness is important. You can’t have a happy life unless you’re in a happy environment.