A lot of men complain about not understanding women, but the truth is that women are as much showers as they’re talkers. Sometimes, they won’t say what they really want and mean, but they’ll show it, and they expect you as a man to pick up on those tiny cues and act accordingly.
So paying attention to detail is very important. Now, let us go into a woman’s world, and try to decode some of the things she says, and rarely says, but shows in her actions.
THE SILENT TREATMENT
It’s frustrating when a woman does this to a man, but it’s never for nothing we must understand. The silent treatment only comes when she’s unhappy, and in desperate need of attention. It could be because you did something wrong or you’re just paying for someone else’s, but either way, you’re the one suffering it, and you got to bail yourself outta the situation.
We all have something we love, that we’ll give up anything to have and enjoy. When she gives you the silent treatment, just think about her favorite thing. What is the one thing that gets her weak? Do it, and you’ll have her again. It may be wise to not press her for answers. She’ll talk if she thinks the time is right.
“ARE WE GOOD?”
If a woman asks you this question, it’s obvious they’re worried about their standing in your life, and they want your reassurance that everything is fine. It could be because you have been distant or cold in recent times or they just don’t feel loved at that time. Talk to them, reassure them, and remind them they’re important if they still are. Otherwise, come clean, and let them go because honestly, if a woman has to ask this question, something may not be right.
According to research, when a woman uses multiple dots at the end of each message it means she’s enjoying it and would like for it to continue going. Don’t slow it down.
If she asks you during the conversation, “how was your day?” She’s probably interested in knowing genuinely, and would appreciate a counter interest from you, so ask about her day too.
It’s really not that difficult to understand a woman as I mentioned before. Sometimes, you just need to pay a little more attention.