We’ve time and again talked about the signs that show a man is interested in a woman, but what about when he isn’t? What are those things to watch out for? Those things in his behavior and attitude that suggest he isn’t that much into you?
HE’S UNCOMFORTABLE ABOUT YOU MEETING HIS PARENT(S)
If a man or woman actually has plans of keeping you around for very long, they’ll make efforts to bring you closer to those who matter in their life, including their family, especially their parents. When they continue to act evasive about taking this step, maybe they don’t see you around them tomorrow.
IT’S ALWAYS ABOUT SEX
Oh it just rained, and the weather is cold, he gives you a quick call because he wants company for the night or afternoon, but what about before? What about after? Sex, is that all you’re good for? Even when you’re together, he doesn’t discuss anything meaningful except how he’s attracted to your body. Sis, you need to rethink your relationship with that brother!
OH HE SPENDS ON YOU, BUT WHAT EXACTLY DOES HE SPEND?
It’s easy to mistake money for love and genuine affection. A lot of people think that just because one spends money on them, it means they’re so into you. Money isn’t everything, don’t get it twisted! Time is a lot more valuable than money. If all he spends is his money and not time, just wonder who he might be giving the latter.
THERE’S ALWAYS A CERTAIN COUSIN, BESTIE HE’S WITH
Oh so there’s this girl he’s always playful with? Don’t be deceived. That supposed bestie or distant cousin might be the woman truly after his heart, and you’re just the one helping her furnish it. Most men don’t keep a woman too closely unless she means something.
DISAPPOINTMENT UPON DISAPPOINTMENT
You’re supposed to have a date night out, he cancels impromptu. You’re supposed to go shopping together, he cancels impromptu. You call him over and over, he doesn’t pick up, and doesn’t call you ASAP. And even when he calls, he sounds a little unapologetic, well, should I go on?
HE NEVER DISCUSSES A CHALLENGE WITH YOU
Everyone has a challenge, a problem they’re fazed with now and then, and the only way they feel better is by discussing it with someone they really care about. If your man never mentions anything, then it’s probably because he has someone else he confides in or you’re just not the type he considers worthy of his confidence.
It’s worthy of note that we understand that only one of the aforementioned doesn’t necessarily mean he isn’t into you, but when he displays at least, 50% of them.