Women are probably the smartest of both genders (yes, I’m a man). They know just the right thing to say for every situation. You can persist all you want, but if a woman doesn’t feel you enough to be with you, she’ll turn you down without breaking a sweat, while making it seem seamless.
Here are some of the popular lines women use to turn a man down.
I’M NOT READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP NOW
This is a very popular line. It’s commonly used by women to curve a man when he doesn’t quite fit the profile they’re after. With this line, the idea is to turn him down whilst making him believe there yet may be hope for him tomorrow (which is very false most of the time).
I DON’T SEE YOU THAT WAY
If you ever hear this from a woman you’re into, just know you’re friend- zoned! Women don’t use this line on guys they totally dislike, they do it with those they like to hang around as friends, but never date.
I’M IN A RELATIONSHIP ALREADY
Don’t fall for that line (not that it’ll change anything, anyway). Studies have shown that women lie about being in a relationship to get some space from an admirer they don’t like. So she’ll say this to scare you into throwing in the towel, and sadly, it works almost all the time.
I’M SORRY, BUT I’M KINDA BUSY
So you asked her out on a date, and got that response? Well, I’m sorry but the reason is because you’re not important enough to her. Another guy she’s into will make the same offer, and she’ll put everything else on hold for him. It’s a question of priority, remember.
I FEEL LIKE I SHOULD FOCUS ON MYSELF FOR NOW
No, she isn’t trying to focus on herself, she’s trying to keep you away, and create more room for her ideal guy to pop up. What she’s really saying. Do not take it personally, it’s just that from her perspective, you’re not compatible.
Girls usually know from the second they see you if you’re boyfriend material or not.