A look around many relationships will tell you that many relationships and marriages around the world aren’t heading in the right direction.
It’s clear to see that people enter the wrong relationships and expect to see the right results; but how possible can that be?
These are some reasons you end up with the wrong person:
1. YOU KEEP GOING IN CIRCLES
A lot of the times, people end up with the same partners but with different skins. This means, you date the same kind of people every time and expect different results. If you keep dating the same kind of men/women, the results will always be the same.
2. YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT YOU WANT
If you don’t know what you want, who you are and what will suit your kind of person, there’s a high possibility that you will end up with the wrong partner. Ending with the right partner starts with you. Self-discovery is the first step.
3. YOU HURRIEDLY ENTER A RELATIONSHIP
Many people enter a relationship in a hurry and forget to ask themselves certain questions. If you get carried away by your emotions and feelings, there’s a high percentage of being in the wrong relationship. Irrespective of your feelings and emotions, guard how you feel and be sure of what you are going into before taking that step.
4. YOU SEEK TO SATISFY PEOPLE
What will my friends think? How would my family react? What will people think of him/her?
Does this sound like you? If you are more interested in the opinion of others than how right or wrong the relationship would be, you might never get it right in the world of relationship.
5. YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO TRIVIAL THINGS
If you keep getting attracted to people for the wrong reasons, then you’d always end up with the wrong partner. Are you always attracted by looks, wealth, class, status? Then you’d most likely end up with the wrong person.
6. YOU IGNORE CERTAIN WARNING SIGNS
There are always warning signs that show up in a relationship and that would tell you whether that relationship is actually right or wrong for you. But if you choose to ignore those signs and believe that your partner will change, you might be making a mistake of your life.
7. YOU FAIL TO DO A COMPATIBILITY TEST
Before you enter a relationship with a person or before you take the relationship further, never fail to do a compatibility test; it’s important to know how compatible you are with your partner because if you aren’t compatible, then you might end up struggling in your relationship.
There’s not a definite answer as to why you are in the wrong relationship, but these are some of those reasons why you most likely end up with the people who aren’t meant for you.