With each day in the marriage, there are traps that you aren’t even aware of; your words and actions and so many situations regarding your marriage present different kinds of traps, and if you aren’t too careful, you might fall into them and your marriage will suffer the consequence.
These are some of the traps every husband should be wary of.
1. TRAP OF BEING TOO BUSY
The urge to want to be the man and put food on the table for your family is one that push many husbands away from their wives. Providing for the home is the man’s responsibility, but in spite of it, the man must still find time for his wife.
2. TRAP OF NOT PAYING ENOUGH ATTENTION
The trap of not paying attention is one many men fall into; a lot of men don’t pay attention to their wives, and attention is one thing every woman thrives on and seriously desire from her man.
3. THE TRAP OF NOT COMMUNICATING
As a husband, you ought to communicate with your wife and understand that communication is a vital part of the marriage. Never make any big decision without involving your wife; this also shows a lack of respect and value. You might not see it that way, but that’s the message you are passing.
I was shocked to find out from a forum that many men don’t create time to talk to their wives. Majority of women in that forum acknowledged that their husbands don’t have the time to chat and review how their day went. Discussions like these will bring you closer to your wife and you mustn’t fall into the trap of not doing this.
4. THE TRAP OF NOT BEING INTERESTED IN THE HOUSE AFFAIRS
Most men fall into the trap of believing their wives should do all the chores in the house; a man like this will never have a satisfied wife. Don’t be a god in your house; it wouldn’t only be ideal, but romantic as well to help your wife in the house chores and other things regarding the house. Show her support by doing this.
5. THE TRAP OF BEING TOO CONTROLLING
Being the leader of the home doesn’t make you a controlling force; leadership has nothing to do with control. But a lot of men fall into the traps of seeing their wives as someone they can order about. You can’t be this kind of man and have a happy marriage.
6. THE ANGER TRAP
The trap of always being angry or getting angry at the slightest thing will lead to you violence and maltreating your wife. Curb your anger; anger is a pest that shouldn’t be brought into your marriage.
It’s easy to fall into these traps as a husband, but these traps are deadly traps that will only kill the love and peace in the marriage.