It has become common for men these days to have a side chick. Men are becoming clever and now know how to keep a main girlfriend with the side chick without both of them knowing about the existence of the other. It’s important as a woman to know about these tricks so you don’t end up as a side chick.
Below are 6 signs you are not his main girlfriend
1. HE AVOIDS SHOWING AFFECTION IN PUBLIC
You are definitely not his main girlfriend if he avoids showing affection in public. If he avoids getting close to you when in public or pulls away when you try to grab his hand in public, you are obviously not his main girlfriend.
2. HE PREFERS STAYING INDOORS WITH YOU
Every normal couple go on dinner dates or movie dates from time to time so if your man prefers staying indoors with you and avoids hanging out with you, you are obviously not his main girlfriend.
3. HE AVOIDS TAKING PHOTOS WITH YOU
You are definitely not his main girlfriend if he always avoids opportunities to take a photo with you. He wouldn’t want you posting photos of the both of you together if you are his side chick.
4. YOU ONLY MEET HIM LATE AT NIGHT
You are definitely not his main girlfriend if he only wants to meet with you late at night. He claims to be never available during the day. He only wants to meet you late at night so friends of his main girlfriend won’t see the both of you together.
5. HE NEVER INVITES YOU TO FAMILY GATHERINGS
You are definitely his side chick if you have never met his family and he has never taken you to any family gathering. His family definitely know his main girlfriend and she isn’t you.
6. HE SPEAKS TO YOU FORMALLY ON PHONE MOST TIMES
If your man speaks to you in a very formal tone most of the times he talks with you over the phone, you are obviously not his main girlfriend. He does that so you don’t get too used to him being romantic on phone so he would be able to communicate with you even when he is with his main girlfriend. He avoids saying I love you when you’re on the phone with him.