Many women nag a lot and they feel nagging will make their man change or make them get what they want from their man.
Nagging is totally unhealthy and could ruin your beautiful relationship, as written in this article. The more you nag, the unhealthier your relationship becomes.
Moreover, you can get what you want from your man without being a nagging woman.
This is how you do that.
1. FEED HIS EGO
Women who know how to feed their man’s ego will definitely get what they want from him with relative ease, but the same cannot be said of women who nag a lot.
Feed your man’s ego, pamper and make him feel valued; when you do this, he’d feel obliged to do your bidding.
2. CHOOSE THE RIGHT TIME
In everything we do in life, timing is very important. Timing is even very important when you want to cook a good food. It’s even much more important when you want to gain something from your man. You ought to choose the right time to do that, when he’s feeling relaxed, happier and in a friendly mood.
Going at the wrong time might only infuriate him.
3. APPRECIATE THE ONES HE DOES
Appreciate those things he does for you, no matter how little they are. When he knows you appreciate even the little things, he’d want to do more for you.
Appreciation will make him want to do more.
4. RETURN FAVOURS TOO
It shouldn’t just be about you asking, wanting and demanding all the time. If your man does a favour for you, you should do something for him too. This is another way of boosting his ego and making him feel special. When he feels this way, he could go the extra mile for you.
5. BE PATIENT
Don’t get angry just because he refused to do something you requested, and don’t get bitter about it, because it will cause you to nag and kill the peace in your relationship. Rather than nag, be patient with him and look for subtler means to get him on your side.
6. SURPRISE HIM
Men are thrilled by surprises; they love surprises, and if you can be this kind of woman to your man, you’d easily get almost everything you want from him.
Be the kind of woman who surprises her man and watch how much he would value you.
7. DON’T CRITICISE HIM
Never criticise your man because he didn’t do your bidding, never call him names and never bring up the past just because he refused your request. Criticising and belittling him will only make matters worse and ruin your relationship with him.
Some women tend to beat around the bush with their man, and men sometimes find this annoying — many don’t even understand this act.
So, be clear about what you want and why it should be done.
9. BE POLITE
Politeness isn’t a trait you should take for granted. You boost his ego when you are polite and you also create a soft spot in his heart for you. Humans are naturally drawn to polite people; so be polite and keep a positive attitude when approaching him for a favour, and whether or not your request is granted, don’t get bitter.
10. USE YOUR FEMININE FEATURES
You have features that would work wonders for you, so why choose to nag?
While I have reiterated that you shouldn’t get bitter, it’s okay to sulk and feel a bit disappointed — this could make him change his mind as far as you don’t go about nagging and being emotionally unavailable. Men somehow hate to see their women sulk; this tends to stir them up to do her bidding. It’s a womanly feature that always works.
Also, never joke with the power of touch and the impact of looking good. Merely looking good for him could take his mind places, and he’d do what you want in no time.
Have you been nagging your man for things you want? I’m certain he wouldn’t do your bidding when you are a nagging partner. But if you choose to follow these tips, the effect will be tremendous.