You can’t just fall in love with every lady you come across, just because she’s beautiful and has a good shape and all that. Those stuffs don’t last, and wouldn’t guarantee anything close to a successful relationship.
A man should know what he really wants in a woman; this differs from men to men. After knowing that, he ought to look out for some basics in her, and it’s those basics that this article is all about.
Before getting married to a woman, or taking the relationship further, you ought to be sure of these.
1. THAT SHE LOVES YOU GENUINELY
Date a woman who loves you genuinely; she ought to love you not because of what you have but because of what you mean to her. When what she feels about you is genuine, only then can you take the relationship further.
Of course, you should only date/marry a woman you can trust. When trust is missing, the relationship will be shaky. Trust is an important quality that you shouldn’t take for granted.
When you are with a woman who’s mentally and emotionally mature, the relationship will be easy going, and there will be less drama and more understanding. Don’t just pick any woman; assess her maturity level too. How she responds and react to certain situations can make the relationship lovely or full of troubles.
A woman who doesn’t respect you can’t love you — no need to mince words on this. Respect comes with love and value; if she respects you, you can easily say that she values and love you. You can’t value who/what you don’t respect.
5. SHE ACCEPTS YOU
Be with a woman who accepts you just for who you are. I’ve seen men pretend to be who they aren’t just to impress a lady. If you cannot be your real self with her, then she isn’t the right one for you. Be with a woman who completely accepts you and who you can be yourself with.
6. APPRECIATES YOU
A lot of men get tired of their marriage because they don’t feel appreciated. When you aren’t appreciated as a man, you’ll tend to become unhappy and feel terrible, not only about the relationship but about yourself too. Be with a woman who appreciates all that you do; this can do a lot to your esteem.
7. SUPPORTS YOU
As a man, you ought to be with a partner that will be supportive of you and help make you a better person in life. A woman will either make you better as a person, or make you worse. It’s up to you to detect which she’s doing to you, and I’d advice you go for the woman who makes you a better man in one way or the other.
It doesn’t end at being with a woman just because you find her attractive; a relationship needs more than attraction to be healthy.
Know what you want in a woman, and check out for these important qualities listed above. This will help you make the right choice.