No one gets married to endure unhappiness, bitterness, sadness, frustration and a host of negativity. Everyone wants a happy marriage, and even though happy ever after are mostly in Cinderella stories, everyone wishes for that.
However, the truth remains that there are unhappy marriages than happy ones, and marriages are unhappy because one or both couples don’t do enough to make it happy.
There are certain things qualities a man could have that would make a woman enjoy being married to him.
1. HE’S SWEET AND ROMANTIC
A sweet and romantic man would sweep you off your feet. It might not be an important criteria in a man, but it’s a welcome bonus. A man who’s sweet and romantic would look for ways to make you feel loved, adored, beautiful, irreplaceable, lovely and valuable at the same time.
2. HE’S THOUGHTFUL
A thoughtful man is usually considerate; he knows those little things that count and goes ahead to do those little things that other men wouldn’t deem as important or wouldn’t even think of.
3. IF HE CARES ABOUT YOUR HAPPINESS
A man who cares about putting a smile on your face and seeing you happy is the kind of man you would enjoy being married to. This kind of man would look for pocket of ways to make you happier and make the marriage better.
4. HE’S A GOOD LISTENER
Nothing beats a good listener; a good listener cares about what you say and how you feel. He pays attention to the little details about you and he tries to be an understanding partner. If he’s a good listener, you would enjoy being married to him.
5. HE GOES THE EXTRA MILE FOR YOU
The man who’s willing to do something extra, to make sacrifices just to make you happy or just to be there for you is a man who’s worth marrying.
6. HE MAKES YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE
The man who makes you feel relaxed when you are around him, who you feel good to be with, and when you’re with him – he makes you feel at home. He lets you be yourself; you don’t have to be anyone or pretend to be anyone. With him, you are just comfortable, and it’s not about money or wealth, it’s about how he makes you feel. You will have a marriage to enjoy when with a man with these qualities.
Looking for the perfect man or the perfect marriage might be a daunting task, but a man who can do these six things for you or who’s willing to do them for you is a man you would have a happy marriage with.