Hello everyone and welcome to this Sunday’s edition of our biweekly Elcrema Sunday Love Special. Weddings are a very important subject, and it’s an event that comes with so much emotions.
Almost everyone has had an ex; there are exes that you just can’t stand, the ones you’ve probably forgotten about, and the ones you deeply loved. We would focus on the ones you deeply loved and had a lot of attachment to. Do you think it’s appropriate to invite such an ex to your wedding?
Drama and Shawn would share their opinions on this subject.
Well, I don’t see anything wrong in inviting an ex i deeply loved to my wedding, as long as I’ve completely moved on from her. Sometimes, people break up and remain friends, especially when the break up happens with mutual consent. Now, if people like this go on to find love in other places, can they not invite each other to their weddings? They definitely can, in my opinion, but there’s an attached condition to it. If you’re going to invite an ex to your wedding, you must first, discuss it with your fiancé or fiancé, as a sign of respect and a way of showing that there’s really nothing more to it than friendship. If you discuss it with them, most people would ‘okay’ the idea because they know you obviously have nothing to hide, and if they say ‘no’, respect their wish, but just make sure you do them the courtesy of informing them first, because when you don’t, and they find out themselves, it stirs up unnecessary suspicion, even when your intentions are pure. Lots of marriages and relationships have been irreparably hurt as a result of such minor oversights. So, if you want to invite someone you once deeply loved to your wedding, there is nothing wrong with it, as long as you let your spouse-to-be know about it. And if you tell them, and they do not concur with the idea, for the sake of peace, let it slide.
Click below to read Shawn’s opinion