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sad man in bed When a woman has stopped loving you, it could feel like the world is coming to an end. There are certain signs she lets out when she has lost interest in you and having a relationship with you.

When a woman no longer loves you, the signs she shows doesn’t go beyond these:


When a woman stops loving a man, her caring and inquisitive nature dies off; she no longer bothers about what goes on in her man’s life, she doesn’t bother and she hardly cares.


When a woman is in love, she finds her man super attractive and charming. However, the same cannot be said when she stops loving him; no matter how good-looking he is, she wouldn’t find him attractive once she has lost that desire for him.


A woman in love would put in all efforts for her man and the relationship, but when this isn’t the case, she wouldn’t care about the relationship anymore — so she wouldn’t put efforts to make the relationship better or show her man that she cares.


Even though she might still linger in the relationship with you, if she’s stopped loving you then her communication with you would die off. Those moments where you both get to talk and laugh for hours would die off and she wouldn’t let you in on what’s going on in her life; you would be like a complete stranger to her.


This is also a given if a woman has fallen out of love with you. She would do things without minding the repercussions; she no longer cares about how you feel and never bothers to make you happy.


Also, when a woman no longer loves a man, she no longer gets moved by the things he does for her; if she loves him, she would appreciate the little things he does for her and if she doesn’t love him, she wouldn’t appreciate the things he does for her.


Like I mentioned in the 4th tip, her communication with you would die off when she no longer loves you, but it doesn’t just end there. She wouldn’t start the communication or make any move to; every form of communication would be from the man and she might never respond.


When a woman stops loving a man, she wouldn’t have the desire to do special things for him anymore. She wouldn’t treat him nice, she wouldn’t make him feel loved and she just wouldn’t care.


You know how everyone craves attention in a relationship? Everyone loves getting attention from their partners; but when a woman stops loving a man, her attention dies off with the love.


When a woman loses interest in her man, the physical intimacy between them would die off too. She wouldn’t want any form of intimacy from him and she would ward off all intimate advances from her man.   These are the common signs a woman show when she’s no longer in love with her man.



  1. I must say this is reality. No matter how much her life needs a man in it, such as a father for her kids, for her financial stability even though she is struggling financially, if she does not love you any more, nothing will make her. She will starve, and do the best she can with her kids, but won’t be with someone she either never really loved, or fell out of love with. All of the deep conversations in the middle of the night laying together, the plans for the future, everything goes away. And she won’t tell you. She will hope she is able to send you signals by acting in a way that just makes you feel like dirt, and that will make you just leave. Because women do not like to intentionally inflict pain if the person she no longer cares about did things and still does for her kids. Or she knows its going to devastate him and cannot bear being “The mean one”. I have gone through this the last 8 months. I did not live with her. But, the more time I spent with her and her kids, I saw the kids poor behavior, her hypocrisy, and other things I could see lead to her divorce. Because I did not condone the dysfunction, and because I would not sacrifice my beliefs to make her feel things she did raising her kids was acceptable, she then began to slip away. Some people have dysfunction and abnormal behavior in their private lives and would have to look at themselves if anything is going to change to stop the dysfunction. A good example is her 10 year old son still sleeping with her and has since he was adopted at one year old. Why the hell did she not tell me this? Why does she ask her 13 year old adopted son to lie to me about it? Why would she sleep with a kid for nine years? That’s when you know you don’t need to be with someone like that anyway. Learn everything you can about them before becoming vulnerable. Because then its going to be too late when you HAVE to leave in order to keep your sanity.

    • I’m not sure if you’re talking about an incestuous relationship between her and her son, but I can tell your woman really hurt you. You should report her if you think she’s doing something illegal.

  2. Its clear my ex never loved me!

  3. Women are all alike in one common fashion, they want to adored, supported, stimulated mentally and sexually, the want security in their relationship but 99% of these women want it on their terms, making it impossible for even Superman to stand in and love these women.
    Since the conception of the internet the terms and usage rights of loving someone got twisted into text email and FB, killing of the physical communication that nutures love.
    When love is real and true your heart tells you so.

  4. I think if you listen to all this stuff it makes you truly believe it; then what of your wife does love you and is going through a hard time then you will have thrown away your marriage for no reason at all I choose to believe my wife loves me as she always has her moods and behaviors have changed but that could be associated with the stress of raising our 4 children she’s an amazing mom and wife and had exzibted all of these signs but I believe everyone is different and you shouldn’t always judge everyone the same way your wife not paying you attention doesn’t mean she doesn’t love you

  5. All the signs mentioned when a woman does not love are true!U can do her a great breakfast she might opt to clean the house first other than rushing into chawing the meal you have prepared for her!You are not a priority anymore, she criticises everything you initiate!She is never satisfied with anything you do for her,she will explore all avenues to ensure that any road leading to a sexual relation is blocked.you will have no peace as long as she is around you!

  6. My wife had stopped wearing her engagement ring & wedding ring.

  7. I think that does not go for women only!

  8. A few weeks ago, there was that girl at office that I use to greet but wasn’t that close of. One morning, she greeted me in such a sensual and unusual way. She asked me why I never brought her any gift. I thought it meant she liked me, so I started being her romantic superman. No a month later, she doesn’t care about me at all, she doesn’t pickup my calls, reply to my messages. She makes no effort to spend time with me. I invited her to the restaurant, and she has always found a good excuse up to now. Why would she behave kindly with me and reject me the next week ?
    Women are a mystery only God can fully unveil.

  9. so it all started in the 3rd grade when she said i have a crush on someone with the letter a and i said who and she said you and my reaction was oh… and 2 years later she told a nother classmate to say o me that she doesnt like me anymore and i heard it and said i know and she finally said achilles i dont like you anymore and it broke my heart and i tried calling her and she never awnser so i wish we could be together again. thats my dying wish is that we could we together again…

  10. Considering the real possibility of being divorced was thrust upon me less than 48hrs ago, I can agree with this list. Too me it’s coming out of left field, especially considering we just got off of vacation, remodeled our house and were talking about retiring in Key West in 12yrs. After nearly 12yrs of being married, sure we’ve had our ups and downs. She said she’s been thinking about it for years, it shouldn’t be a surprise? Really? I’m not perfect, neither is she. Instead of recalling all the good times, she has the uncanny ability of recalling everything I’ve done wrong (pointing out shit from our wedding day- 12yrs ago WTF!?).

    After reading this article, yes, she hit every benchmark over the last 30 days. I’m confused, hurt and not sure what our future holds? To make matters worse, I got the kiss of death “I love you, but I don’t think I’m in love with you”. And “I know it’s not what you want to hear, but I don’t know if I will ever love you the way I did before”. Adding, “I won’t leave you because of our daughter, but don’t expect me to be affectionate or loving toward you”. The cherry on top, “I’m tired and need time, I’m not in a place of happiness right now”. Granted, Menopause is in full swing and I’ve made mistakes in the past while drinking (verbally disrepectful due to unresolved issues), but damn, talk about going full tilt!

  11. maybe she was using you to make someone else feel jealous? I feel for you dude, but might this be possible?

    • No. It’s her second time around and there is definitely no love loss with her ex-husband. It’s my first and only crack at marriage.

    • It’s highly unlikely there’s someone else. It’s just not her M.O. Frankly, as much as that would suck, not knowing where we’re going is worse. If there was someone else, I’d be pissed, but at least I could move on from that, one way or another.
      As far as honesty goes, I had to drag the alarming information out of her after getting “RBF” for several weeks. I would classify it as misled with malicious intent.
      Now that the initial shock is starting to wear off, I’m finding myself more angry and bitter, with flashes of hurt on occassion. While I’m hopeful she’ll come to her senses, I know it’s unlikely. So while I haven’t consulted an attorney yet, I have read a great deal about Florida Family Law in preparation. While I’m not vindictive and realize there is no winning only varying degrees of losing, according to the law I won’t walk away too beat up. In fact, it’ll hurt her more to follow through with this craziness. Overall, it sucks and I don’t like waiting to hear what my future may or may not hold.

  12. Dude I feel for you. The list looks right to me. I’ve been married for 19 years, and found out my wife doesnt love me in a bad way. She sent an email containing this statement behind my back to our minister, along with a record of everything I’d done wrong in the marriage. What a memory!
    Neither she or him would let me see the contents, but I trapped it at the router before sending it on.

    The worst bit is, I have the knowledge in private and I’m getting professional advice – lets say. At least your wife is at least being honest.

    You might want to double check someone else is not in the picture. I’d advise you consider a private detective, just to make sure…

  13. really sorry man, women are so weird, like what am going through now, she doesn’t want to talk to me any more, bro save your marriage if it is still worth saving bro, and Good luck with every decision you make.

  14. I am sorry for all the men who are hurting but let’s be real, none of this came out of nowhere.
    They were years of bad decisions, hurt feelings, not putting her first, etc etc before one day she finally had enough. Women have a LONG and HIGH pain thresh hold and we will do any and everything to keep a good man around and to keep a family together but eventually if you do not act right, we get tired and quit.
    I know so many men say they never saw it coming but sit down and honestly think how you have treated her for the past 5 years and take it from there.
    I am pretty sure you will then she her good reasons.
    Not defending, just trying to help men see, as I know this often comes as a surprise to them.

  15. The problem is like this, when you do not care about a girl, you have the manly attitude you have fun and build your own potential, you are very attractive. You become a girl magnet and sometimes you pick one of those ladies one that may not be the sanest one to have a relationship. bam! You are on your way from super hot guy to fucking provider, in let´s say 10 years. For girls honor is nothing they are emotionally ridden and always for the thrill. If you are not a fucking drunk, you treat her nice, your dick is not limp, you have your confidence, you have an average financial life, there is no reason for her to leave you unless she is a fucking unworthy person with a bad attitude that will not change and you, my friend, will be retarded if you do not dump such a person. I know people love people, and do the impossible but there must be a line, and most important open your eyes. You may think she is someone she is not for years, girls are professional hypocrites since age one.

    Also girls like melrem who will blame you for a list of things you didn´t do, so she will not have to see herself as the ungrateful slut she is, but trust me fellows, you are listening to a game of hers with no price. The melrems of the world asking their husbands for infinite requests to win their unworthy approval are most of the time the same girl giving me head in the club´s bathroom. You and I will not marry shut a slut, we just dump them teach them a lesson.

    Now for your upcoming relationships get someone who is not only hot to you but also good in other areas and check for her family if she has a split family, be careful, if she is not smart, she may be a feminist and chances are, she will be lonely for life. Let her be.

    As a rule you need to focus on the man you want to be do not lose track of yourself, be kind and loving but not stupid.
    Cheers guys and good life.

  16. i agree with u David Girls llike Melrem dont see what women do to men and we have a certain amount of patience untl we explode into the Hulk.. they want to see us angry because hey want to reach our threshold and limits and when that limit of ours is not what tey expected they abort and abandon they can never commit to their husband nor their children because they are scared of natural responsibility but instead they prefer unnatural rights and if they have their way they would abolish marriage and become lesbians make men slaves etc.

  17. It is obvious my wife doesnt love me anymore,my world is fallin apart , it is only a matter of time it falls apart. Seems like Jim Beam Is my friend now

  18. joaquin miguel mallari // October 25, 2017 at 9:41 am // Reply

    She somethimes do things that makes me frustrated and I always make this small issue even bigger thats why we are often having an argument because of my fault.Well I already confess to her but she said that im too nice and kind for her and she doesn’t deserve me I explained to her that I am being honest on what I said that all of our argument are started by me since I don’t want to end our relationship I always say sorry for the things i’ve done to her but she refuse it she said that it is not my fault and now when I want to talk to her or having a conversation with her she doesn’t reply.She stated that what if I don’t want it anymore(our relationship) i’m totally shocked when I saw her message and I ask myself why did I do this why did I ruin everything why she doesn’t love me anymore.I already said that she is my first love but why would she leave me like thats since then she doesn’t wanna speak to me or having a conversation at me.

  19. I married my old flame after Divorcing my ex-wife of 28 years,now i realize “Why” my ex-wife said call your old flame .4 years later i married her. And now. I see what I didnt see and what my ex-wife did.Big clue if your lady you are thinking of marrying accepts you as you are and doesnt complain or notice flaws in “You”She might be in denial and hasn’t awoke from a coma😒When she wakes up and. Complains about everything you say and do.Reality just hit her and you. Are paying the price.I find that more and more my wife concealed her true thoughts and feelings.Even in a psych. Evaluation. I was sure a red flag went off “But” No. So now im married to a minister who cant express deep feelings of compassion but express es in general terms .So here i am in a marriage Living for God and shes jealous of my children by my ex-wife go figure??

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