It’s normal to see a man fall in love deeply with a woman and after a while his emotions and feelings for her start declining till it reaches a point where he doesn’t have love for his lady anymore.
So what really is responsible for this decline? Why do men fall out of love?
There are so many factors responsible for this, and I would share 7 major reasons why a man falling out of love is a normal recurrence.
1. SHE NAGS AND COMPLAINS ALL THE TIME
If you ask any man the one thing that they can’t stand in women, the one thing most of them would tell you is nagging. Nagging is an infuriating character most men can’t live with and it’s also a love killer. A woman that nags and complain all the time would definitely chase her man out of her life.
2. SHE’S IN HIS SPACE
This is another thing that could be just as infuriating or probably even more than nagging. A woman who keeps coming in her man’s space all the time or becomes too clingy or tries to dictate what to do for the man is usually the kind of woman that a man would fall out of love with in the long run.
A man’s space isn’t always a physical space, it’s most times a mental bloc where he goes to restore his sanity; his deepest thoughts are there and that’s where he finds solutions to certain life problems and pressures. Disturbing him in his space would definitely leave him infuriated and can make him fall out of love in the long run.
Most times, it’s compatibility issues that tear relationships apart. Incompatibility might not matter at first, but weeks and months after, it could begin to cause differences and arguments. When a man doesn’t really feel compatible with his lady, he could easily fall out of love.
4. HE STOPS FEELING CHERISHED
This is one reason many people don’t get to talk about. Women love to feel cared for, cherished and loved in a relationship and so also do men. When a man feels his lady isn’t giving him much-needed attention, he could become insecure and if care isn’t taken, his insecurity could lead to him falling out of love.
When a man senses that he isn’t valued in the relationship anymore, he could gradually lose interest.
5. THE FOUNDATION OF THE RELATIONSHIP
A relationship that’s deeply rooted in love cannot be compared to the one born out of lust, sex and mere physical attraction. The root of a relationship matters a lot, and a lot of the times men enter relationships for the wrong reasons. They probably get to know this after a few weeks of the relationship.
6. DEATH OF EMOTIONAL CONNECTION
The emotional connection, feeling, bond and desire between partners are highly important in a relationship. Once this emotional connection is lost, the man would easily fall out of love.
7. WHEN THE HONEYMOON PHASE HAS PASSED
The first two to three weeks are what I call the honeymoon phase of a relationship. At this stage, both partners love and admire each other so much and are deeply connected to each other. At this stage, everything in the relationship is working perfectly well and both partners put in their best efforts. Once this stage passes by, the relationship could then take a twist and each partner’s flaws become obvious — this is the point the love starts to get tested and this is the point where love also begins to falter.
8. FREQUENT RELATIONSHIP QUARRELS
No man loves a relationship where the quarrels come thick and fast, and once it starts happening, his love would also start declining. Most men can’t stand a relationship when it gets to this point and this is another point where his love starts fading tremendously.
Men fall out of love for different reasons and more often than not, it doesn’t go past these reasons.