In these modern times when more and more people are becoming even better at deception, and of course, considering that no one is a mind reader, there are no sure ways of knowing who has genuine intentions towards you. But then, they say energy never lies. So I think that as much as there are no sure ways of knowing, if we’re attentive to details (their behaviour), we may be able to pick up on one or two things from which we can judge their intentions towards us.
So here are a few things to expect from a man who is serious about you.
1. HE’D GIVE ANYTHING TO BE WITH YOU
We all get caught up in our work sometimes that we find it difficult to make out time for ourselves, so creating time for some else becomes even more difficult. But it has been said, that love is about sacrificing. A man who is serious about having you in his life would make out time from that ‘tight’ schedule to be with you, even if it means canceling or postponing important appointments for your sake. He wouldn’t keep posting you up because he appreciates you, and how much your time means.
2. HE FEELS CONFIDENT ABOUT YOU
Have you ever seen a sane parent who is too ashamed to show off their child? — that’s because love doesn’t lie. If it’s real, he’d be proud enough to show you off in public. If he’s always making excuses as to why he has to go to that occasion without you, he’s certainly not confident about having you as a partner.
3. HE’D BE EAGER FOR YOU TO MEET HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS
This is because he’s not thinking short-term. He sees you as a part of his life beyond the present, so why not get you to meet with the important people in his life? — including his family and friends.
4. HE’S WILLING TO WAIT
It’s easy to say, ‘I love you’, but way much more difficult to prove it. A lot of men would tell you how you mean the world to them, but cannot sacrifice sexual pleasure for your happiness. A man who is willing to wait for sex till you’re ready to indulge, is definitely crazy about you.
5. HE SHOWS INTEREST IN OTHER IMPORTANT AREAS OF YOUR LIFE
Does he ask you about your goals and aspirations in life? Does he encourage and support you both emotionally and financially (if need be)? Does give you a shoulder to lean on when you need one? Does he push you to get out of your comfort zone and be greater? These are some of the things a man who is genuinely crazy about you would do for you. A relationship goes beyond sex and pleasure for him, and he always wants to put your interests in focus too.
6. YOUR PRESENCE LIGHTS HIM UP
I don’t know about you, but I’ve been privileged to be with someone who I totally care about, and whenever I’m around her, it’s like I’m stripped off every pain and worry in my life. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not implying that the worries will no longer be there, what I’m saying is that being with her makes me forget that I even had them, and that is because she brings joy into my life. This is the same for a man who you drive nuts. He’ll light up at the very sight of you.