There is usually a big difference when a man loves a woman for who she really is and not for some superficial reasons. Not every man goes into a relationship with a woman because he truly loves her, and that’s a fact.
The good thing is when a man loves you for who you are; not for your status, not for sex, not for other irrelevant things; when he loves for real then he would love you genuinely, and it’s always obvious.
Below are signs he loves you for who you are:
1. ACCEPTS YOUR FLAWS
Looking for a perfect human can be compared to looking for a dinosaur; it doesn’t exist. A man who loves you for real would accept your flaws and try to live with it, while still loving you each day. He understands that flaws are part of the human life, and he accepts it and even puts in effort to make you a better person. You don’t have to ask for his love, he gives it genuinely.
2. DOESN’T COMPARE
When a man loves a woman for real, he gives his all and sees perfection in his lady’s imperfection; he would rather have her than any other, so he doesn’t compare her to other women. Comparisons bring unnecessary competition.
3. PUTS IN EFFORT TO MAKE THE RELATIONSHIP WORK
When he doesn’t truly love you for who you are, he would have this nonchalance in his attitude, the way he treats you and the way he takes the entire relationship. However, the case is different when he has a genuine interest; he knows he values you and the relationship, so he would put in an effort and probably extra effort to make the relationship work.
4. HE WOULD BE PROUD OF YOU
Some men are ashamed of their partners, and that’s a sign that he doesn’t love her for who she is. One thing love has the power to do is cover shame; when a man is in love with his lady genuinely, he’s proud of her any time, and day. If he’s ashamed of you then he’s in the relationship for some other reasons.
It takes patience to make a relationship work; a man who loves genuinely would have the patience to make the relationship work. He would be patient and understanding enough to pass through the rough patches that follow a relationship; he isn’t the type to bail out at the first hitch; he passes through all the hitches and rough patches with you.
Having a man who loves not for superficial reasons like sex for example is usually a good sight; that’s when you know the relationship is worth it.